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so my bf is very experienced and in a way that makes me feel better, but in a way it doesn't. he's ready to have sex with me and i love him alot and i do want him to be my first but i just don't know if i'm ready. the only things i've really done is kiss.. i did make out by the guy forced himself of me so it doesn't really count. i wanna go all the way with him cuz i completely trust him and i want my first time to be with someone experienced so they don't expect much from me. should i wait or just do it? i'm so confused. please help!!! =]
much appreciation, Chelsea (link)
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babygirl if all you've done is kiss then i dont think you are physicaly or emotionally ready to have sex, but even if you really think you are i would just wait. thats something you can never take back no matter what, nd i kno tht this is a bad cliche but if he really loved you he would wait until you are completely ready. Theres a big difference between wanting to do something really bad and being ready to do something, dont get the two confused, and also you said that you wanted your first time to be with someone experienced so they don't expect much from you, but the thing is that if he is really as experienced as you think he is then wouldnt it be the opposite?
mmk well dont stress over it babygirl, just dont put trying to make him happy over what you know in your heart will make you happy. i know you might not listen to this but please do, nd im sure ur thinking im an old fart lmao but im not haha i promise nd im telling you what i would tell myslef haha. im a virgin and im going to stay that way until i know i am completely ready. ive seen way too many of my friends make the mistake of having sex wayyyyy before they were ready. ahh i trying to think of something original to say so that you dont think that im full of shit. but this is all i got lmaoo
anyway goodluck babygirl
i hope you do whats best for you(:
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