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My boyfriend and I have been officially been together a year. On and off before for two years.. He ordered me a pair of Swarovski earrings I wanted and let me pick a few presents myself with his credit card.. We haven't had the best relationship a lot of fighting etc.. He told me he got me another present that I am going to shit myself when I see it those were the exact words.. And that it was small.. His mom told me she saw it and she was so surprised coming from him and it really came from the heart.... I'm so confused first thing I thought was a ring but I don't know... What else really comes from the heart and I'd shit myself when I see it?? (link)
We just have our ups and downs sometimes I already have a promise ring so I didn't know if it was the next step not sure


can you get pregnant by getting fingered even when he touched his penis ? 14/female me and my boyfriend wanted to have sex but he didnt have a condom so i said no bt he still pulled out his penis bt we didnt do anything with it i jus felt it and stuff like that bt he fingered me could i still get pregant even if he touched his penis then started fingering me ? (link)
Youuur wayy to young to be having sex, and if you dont know what your doing quit before your at it youll get yourself pregnant


If a guy cums in your ass and it gets on your panties && you're scared you might get pregnant does birth control work AFTER you have sex??? I need to know because I took it. :o and I'm only 15 years old so I am not ready to deal with any consequences or complications!! (link)
You dont get pregnant from anal sex, and you shouldnt even be having sex yet and if you dont even know the consequences.


I am going to attempt a pole dance for my man on valentines day and really need to know and good songs to strip to! Any style will work, modern or old burlesque...I have no prefference!! Just want something sultry! Thank you so much for any help!!!! (link)
t pain
im in love with a stripper


Hey! This weekend I'm goin to a teen night club. I think it's like ages 14-17 or something like that. I'm going with a bunch of my girlfriends. I'm just wondering what would be appropriate to wear? (link)
deff dont wear a sweat shirt if your planning to dance alot youll sweat to death i go to clubs all the times and wear a t shirt or tank top its so hot in clubs, and most of all wear comfortable shoes i used to wear heels and my feet would hurt so bad the next day and id get blisters maybe a pair or flats =) hope i helped

flats, tshirt, cute jewelry, tight blue jeans



has anybody ever gotten track n sew extensions before? & how was it..did you need alot of maintence or no?

thankssss =) (link)
if you know someone that knows how to do it you better of its alot of money to get it in the salon i had them before and i deff would not glue them it ruins your hair. I had mine weaved in it takes about and 2 hours approx.But i honestly would never glue them! hope i helped


20/f

My boyfriend's birthday is coming up. We've known each other for a long time but we have been only dating for a few months. I want to do something creative for him that doesnt have to involve money (I dont mind spending a little though).I think its more special when less funds are involved. Any ideas??? Thanks in advance! (link)
aw make him a scrap book i just made him one he loveddd it! buy some stickers or even quote stickers from acmoore if u have one i dont know where u live but they have all kinds of sticker poems and hearts and suchh its perfect the scrap book was $3 and the stickers range good luckk


okay so i really neeed soem help. especially from older girls.
im 15/f and lately ive been getting really bad discharge and it smellsss!
its like yellow and/or clear and its thick
i have to wear pantyliners every day
even with a thong! and change it at least once
i told my mom and she bought me that douche thing but its not working
what wrong with me!?!?
i dont want to have this forever i just want to be able to wear under wear without a pantyliner and without the smell/discahrge going through my pants.

and p.s ive never had any sexual things done to me.

pleasee help!!!! (link)
when you were thongs they get dirty because the rub back which sometimes causes a yeast infection which you prob have because it happended to me before try not to wear thongs as much as you do because thats prob what caused it.


i LOVE Monster (the energy drink) and I drink it all the time. just yesterday my mom said she was concerned about it because she heard it stunts your growth, so now i can't drink it anymore. is this true? thank you SO MUCH!!!!! (link)
if i were you id check out how much caffenine is in the drink and how much caffenine a day is okay for you


i have my school dance tonight and i have the worst halter swimsuit tan and im wearing a pink tubetob neckline spaghetti strapped dress if that makes sense. so is there any kind of spray on color smoother or something i can use quickly without getting a tan? and i could get it a drugstore or something? (link)
try to go to a local tanning salon to tan over the halter tan



Does anyone know of any clinics in upstate NY
where an underaged girl could go to get birth control? And how much (if you know) would it cost approx.? (link)
check in the phone book. and call to see how much approx.


heyyy, well, i need a just a plain white hoodie, but i have no idea where to find one! i've looked at pacsun,ae,hot topic, delias, almost everywhere! does anyone know where they are? =[. also , a plain black hoodie? thanks people :D (link)
h&m has them for like &19.50 i bought one from there before they have plain black and white ones there very cutee


okay so i have two questions

one of my real good friends thinks she pregnant because her and her boyfriend had sex and she was supposed to get her period 4 days later but instead she has brown spots on her underwear

what does that mean? is she pregnant?



and second question

if you get fingered and the guy has a little cum on his finger, can you get pregnant?

please help ASAP

this is so important
thanks (link)
sometimes when you get your period its brown sometimes your period changes its cycle. Mine has been brown plenty of times.

And when cum hits the air its dead so
no


So.."Tom" and I were going out for a little over two years. It's been on again, off again. He comes from a "tough" family, as do I, but in completely different ways. His mom's always swearing at him, and lowering him, as if it's no big deal. Now he's taken that attitude toward everyone; including me. I can't stand it, but I understand that it's not necessarily his fault. I DO love him, no matter what, but I don't think he feels the same way. Everyone says I can do better, but it's him I want to be with, and he "says he wants to be with me too"..This time, we've broken up though (I broke up with him)- and it hasn't just stayed a few days, it's been about a month and a half! Anyways, about jr.prom, I said I realllly wanted to go with him, but he wont go, because he says "hes gonna hate the music, not wanna dance, and be completely bored". I don't understand why he won't just go with me, for one night, to make me happy. I've tried everything to convince him to go; saying all my friends were going so I really wanted to be apart of it, and that i only get ONE jr. prom, etc..he said he would take me next year (for sr. prom)-he also said that both proms were going to be exactly the same- but I talked to older people, and they all said "i should go, because I only get one JR PROM"...Anwyays, other people want me to go with them, but I know Tom would be FURIOUS,and not talk to me for a LONGG time,even though he won't go with me.. I'm afraid of not going and missing all the fun prom stuff, (even though I COULD just go next year), to stay friends/ prolly go out with Tom again in the future, or I could just go with another guy, and call it a night!
HELP!

F/ 17 (link)
i have the same problem my boyfriend wont go with me either. But anyway i think you should go with someone else if he wont go with you. My boyfriend told me i can go with someone else. Its your junior prom enjoy yourself its your only jr.prom. Im sure you love him and dont want him to be furious. If he would be mad he isnt worth it anyway. He should trust you and want you to have a good time. hope i helpedd


ok so i have been felt up b4 but that it and i have made out a millions times and whenever i shave i get theses red bumps on my vagina wat is it im a lil worried (link)
its either you are not using some kind of shaving cream or soap you have to use either from havign this problem or maybe you are shaving a little to much





Does anyone know what kind of shoes these are or where I might be able to get them? (link)
they are called bapes.
try www.cankicks.com


I had all of my money stolen from me and now I'm broke for X-mas. I'm going to manage to save up some money but not enough to buy my friends the wonderful presents I wanted to get them! I need some cheap/creative ideas for presents but I have no idea what anything is and I'm so stressed out the whole process is just giving me a headache! So could anyone please help with some cheap and/or creative ideas (that dont make it LOOK like I'm cheaping out, I mean they're gonna understand that I cant afford much but I still dont want to seem lame)? (link)
i think you should check out this website i ordered stuff from online
http://www.personalizationmall.com

or maybe you should go out this friday is black friday mostly everything is on sale.


what does it means when a guy say the girl is "easy"? (link)
that she will do whatever with him when ever




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