Member Since: May 24, 2008
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Last Update: May 28, 2008
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16/f/sophomore
im trying to make friends this year but it's so hard! i dont have a "best friend", a person who i think is the coolest person to hang out with ever and who thinks the same about me, like other girls & guys with my grade. thats bc i used to be really shy but now im pretty much over shyness and i want to be social.
i know i should be nice & talkative but i feel like its HARD because i dont want to become one of those people who are so OBVIOUSLY trying to be friends with someone else and spend all their time talking to them when that person doesnt like them. also it seems like veryone already has their own best friends, a crew that they can hang out with at ANYTIME. while i have friends in 5 groups and out of 10 years only 5 of my friends have come over to my house, and i can count the number of times they have come over on my hands. and i never get invited ANYWHERE..to the beach...to parties (maybe once every 6 months)..just to HANG OUT..im always at home on saturdays and im too embarassed to admit it to anyone. =[
keep in mind my family is kind of hard up right now money-wise so i cant just throw parties.
I KNOW im NOT a boring person and i KNOW im not annoying compared to other people i know and i KNOW im not like a social outcast who nobody talks to, i have a lot of friends, a few good, long-time friends who are in their own groups, but no BEST friends. i guess i just need advice on how to make friends. anything youve got. (link)
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It is certainly difficult to try to redefine yourself especially in High School but I do not think it is impossible. The good thing is that you have recognized that you have changed and want to keep changing and growing as a person. You did not mention if you are part of a club or sporting group. I think that joining a club would be one of the easiest ways to try to make new friends, be social, and because you have something in common you can use that as "springboard" to joining in activities outside the club setting. By joining a club or sport you have an opportunity to show people how much you have changed and that you are no longer shy. Also most school clubs do not cost very much if anything to participate in.
With summer coming you may also want to consider volunteering for a group that you know will have other classmates involved.
Good luck. I know you will have a chance to shine.....
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um my big toe is smaller than my second toe, and my second toe looks abnormally bigger all of a sudden, do you toes grow? (link)
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Actually many people's second toe is longer than the big toe and it has a name, Morton's Toe. Some studies have been done that suggest individuals with a Morton's toe may actually be more intelligent than those with a "normal" length second toe. I do not know if it is true but I would like to believe it seeing that I too have a Morton's toe.
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15/f ok this might sound really weird but i really need to ask this. i love to masturbate but i cant get any sex toys and im just using my fingers. i dont want my mom to notice that im masturbating. shes really against it, and so thats the reason i cant get sex toys. im really getting bored without sex toys and i really want to know if there are any household items that i can use to masturbate with instead. i noe from this i might sound weird but im really getting sick of having nothing to use but fingers. any advice would be appreciated! (link)
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The back massager will work for only so long. Look for circular items such as deoderant, perfume, and hair spray bottles in varying diameters. Start small first then increase. Make sure that you are stimulating your clitoris at the same time and you will certainly enjoy youself...have fun.
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i kinda prefer women who are actually on the pill to answer please
how does the pill work? what exactly goes on in there that makes you not get pregnant?
and how long do you have to wait until it actually starts working?
i've also heard that it can make you gain weight, improve your skin or make it worse, and make you not want to have sex. is that true? has that happened to you?
thanks! (link)
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You prefer that your girl's be on the " pill" so that you do not need other forms of protection. You realize that the pill does protect you from HIV and other forms of sexually tranmitted diseases.
The pill works by increasing the pregnancy hormones progesterone and estrogen. By doing this the pill "tricks" the female body into believing that it is pregnant and does not allow a monthly ovulation thus preventing conception from ever occuring. As for your other questions all of them may be a side effect of birth control pill use.
I certainly did not mean to mean imply that you are 5 months old. At which age you would not be asking such questions about issues as the bcp. By the way if you are female, why would you prefer girl's that are on the pill? Just asking, please do not take
offense.
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do most girls have vibrators? and if so how often do they use them? (link)
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I do not know if "most" girls use vibrators but I would say that it is the most sure way to have an organism. You certainly do not need to use one alone. I am sure your partner would be turned on if you used it with them. It certainly adds an element of excitement!
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