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15/f
Well, the title pretty much explains it.
Last night i got really mad at my boyfriend "dan" we'll call him.
We were having a normal phone convo and having a good time and laughing.
When, he asks the question "How many boyfriends have you had baby?"
and we've talked about this so many times, and he KNOWS how many i've had.
I'm the ONLY girlfriend he's ever had, and i know it. His best friend told me, and he certainly has a number of times.
So i tell him "Four."
And he goes 'I mean, real boyfriends that you kiss and stuff, not go out for a day and dump"
and i said "well in that case its you."
and he snickers and goes "I've had nine"
Me: NINE?! you always told me i was the only one.
him: well, i didn't want to make you feel bad.
Me: but then why did you freak out when we kissed for the first time? You always told me that was the best night of you life because you got your first kiss.
Him: I meant on a date.
Me: .... so what are the girls' names?
He never even told me their names, i forget wat excuse he used but all i know is i felt like crying on the phone.
I know what you guys are thinking that he might be teling the truth.
If you know him like i know him, you would most definatley tell me hes lying. He lies to me ALL THE TIME.
And he think i wont notice, i'm not stupid, i notice and then i ask him about it and then he lies some more.
he tells me he loves me all the time but when he lies to me it just makes me think hes doing it to make me feel horrible.
for example, we'll be in the pool and my top will fall just a tiny bit down, but i'll fix it right away.
Then i'll joke around and say "You didnt see anything did you?"
and he'll say "yeah, actually i did."
and just things like tha he does to make me feel horrible?
I really don;t know, he says he loves me, and i love him.
And this may sound like B.S
but to tell you the truth i've never lied to him before.
and its just other lies here and there.
Like, ill say "Ohmygod imagine if someone did _____"
and he'll say
"Ive done that before"
and i KNOW hes lying.
It makes me feel like he doesnt care about me, and that hes going out of his way to hurt my feelings.
has anyone ever had this happen to them?
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i know exactly how you feel
sometimes guys think that if they say pervy stuff about what they've done with girls it will make them more desirable, when really it just makes them total jackasses.
you need to talk to him about how much it hurts when he puts you down and lies to you. be ready to have a situtaion if he asks "when have i lied to you?" because then that will make him realize that that hurts you.
it okay to be in love, but if this guys is not going to love you like you love him then there's another guy out there who will
good luck
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ihave a somewhat preppy syle now, but i have become interested in edgy style clothing. does anyone know some good stores for any season (prefferably summer//fall) good stores that has edgy clothes? teewhy in advance.
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okay so you'll want to avoid really dark gothic places like hot topic because then people will think you're emo. some really cute stores are Zumiez and Pacsun because they both have pretty edgy stuff that preppy at the same like. it's mostly skate and surf clothes if you're into that. they're also not really expensive which is a good thing =]
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