Member Since: January 3, 2011
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Last Update: January 3, 2011
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ok so me and my best friend are really close. were so close that people actually call us lesbians. we talk on the phone everyday for 2 hours. we see each other a lot and hang out. but lately ever since she got the job she is now working with me. we like to get the same shifts so we can work together. but we keep fighting now. and for some reason im just getting so mad at her for being so stupid at times for other reasons not at work. i dont know why im acting like this towards her. but i guess it's because im sick of her. I dont know. but we havent been talking a lot lately and we keep talking rudely to each other. i just want to fix it. and tomorrow we have different shifts and she wants me to change mine so i can work her shift. im just so stressed out with her it's making me be mean to her. what should i do? is it because i need some space from her or what? (link)
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I can relate. It's natural to get annoyed with someone after being with them too long/often. It just takes one thing to annoy you, then after every little thing ticks you off. You guys just need space from each other, that way you two will be excited when you do see each other again.
I say you talk to your friend if she gets mad at you for pulling away. Have an honest conversation saying that you do care about her, but you need your space. It's for the sake of both of y'all's sanity! haha. If she's a good friend (and she probably is since you two are so close), she should understand.
One more thing, it's natural to get into conflicts whenever there's a change in your friendship. You guys are used to spending so much time together that she still expects that - probably why she was bitchy to you on New Year's. You could also bring this up in your conversation.
Hope this helps!
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