Member Since: January 9, 2008
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Last Update: January 13, 2008
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(I'm 17/f) I've had this huge crush for one of the guys I work with for about a solid year. We would always flirt, but I always thought he was just being his goofy self and didn't know how I really felt. Well about a month ago we finally started hanging out outside of work, and he confessed he'd known how I felt for a long time. We ended up hooking up the day before new years eve, and we've fooled around a lot since then. I'm really happy where we are.
My problem is he wants to keep our fling a complete secret and I'm kind of afraid to ask why. I'm almost positive he likes me too, because he calls me almost every night to talk for like two hours. When we're alone he kisses me softly and holds my hand, all that sweet stuff. But nothing in public or when either of us have friends around. I might be because he's afraid of the age difference (he's 22), but idk. The first night we had sex he told me he "couldn't make any promises" and he made sure I understood, which I said I did.
I'm afraid that if I ask him where he and I are going (IF we're going anywhere), that he'll freak out and stop wanting to fool around altogether. I love being friends with benefits with him, but I want to figure out if there's a chance of a future relationship. How can I ask him without being clingy, desperate, and forward??
Thanks for reading!
-Ames (link)
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wow. dont worry. i feel the same way about somone to. well just ask him and say i doesnt feel right.
maybe that will give him some since. :)
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