Member Since: March 28, 2013
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Last Update: March 28, 2013
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20/f last year I was raped by my ex boyfriend, long story short we drank (he led me to believe he was drinking but in actuality I was the drunk one,) when we went to bed I remember waking up to him doing the act. To this day I have not told anyone except a good friend, and my new current boyfriend (of almost 9 months) at the very beginning of our relationship, but I toned town the story a bit. Nobody actually knows everything that happened, and I can't seem to get over it. I have brought it up once to my boyfriend, and he consoled me (as well as wants to kill my ex) but I feel badly about the topic if it is to come up again, I don't want him to think I still think about my ex. Should I be over it by now? It makes me feel dirty and sick to think about it, I could cry.
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Talk to more people, your close friends, family and maybe a psychiatrist about this issue if it still bothers you. It seems like it has affected you emotionally and physically so I do suggest you talk to a psychiatrist.
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I am i 14 year old female and for the past few years my friends who i have known since i was 3 have been constantly been making fun of me and especially now that we are in high school its worse. They do it as a joke and it really hurts my feelings and i tell them most of the time that they're hurting my feelings and they say they'll try and stop but they never do. I can't deal with it anymore please help (link)
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Childhood friends are not always the best/closest friends. It is not about the time, it is about the quality of their values and morals.
Your friends are not respecting who you are and are hurting you emotionally, and therefore I suggest you stick with other friends instead of them.
If you are uncomfortable with not letting them go, adapt to situation and and just laugh with them, they get less pleasure from that hahaha.
you say it like they are in a group, this can be tormenting but in another case you could stop letting them meet you so just walk to the library, chat with another group of friends.
TLDR:
1. Stick to other groups of friends
2. Laugh with them
3. Hide from them discretely, dont make it as though you fear them
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