Member Since: January 23, 2016
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Last Update: July 4, 2016
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does finger fucking make you lost your virginity??
i'm from PMB (link)
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virginity is a social construct. if you want to feel like being fingered by another person makes you lose your virginity, then that would be losing your virginity for you. if you would rather believe that virginity is lost only when the vagina/anus is penetrated by a penis/strap-on, then that would be when you lose your virginity. there is no strict rule, it is entirely up to you the line you want to draw :)
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I get hating the terrorists but the terrorists are a very small minority. Islam is a huge religion. I am not a Muslim and I'm a lesbian too, but I don't blame all Muslims for Orlando, 9/11, Brussels, Paris, San Bernardino, etc. In fact I will never forget the time when I was younger (at the time I was 12), with my sister (who was 5) and my mother who was struggling to pay for stuff at the grocery store. While all the people in the line were looking around to see where they can buy their food quicker, a Hijabi Muslim woman not only gave us enough money afford it, but paid for the entire thing. And she went out of her way to do it too. So why do people hate all Muslims? (link)
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in short, some people are just islamophobic. it sucks, but unfortunately that's the way some people are. it's up to those of us with common sense who don't hate them, to do our best to try to teach those islamophobics why their feelings of hatred are wrong.
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so i have sensory processing disorder (age 15, trans male) and my relationship with my mother is HORRIBLE. for the sake of the length of this question i won't go into detail, but basically it kills me to be around her or in the same building as her at all. when i was younger (like, up until maybe 10 at the very oldest) i used to love hugging her and all that, but now it makes me want to (and sometimes really do) literally scream and can even cause a sensory meltdown if/when she tries to force me to hug her. (i'm getting immensely uncomfortable just thinking about it) but the thing she always brings up is that i hug my friends with no problem, and it's true. i love to hug my friends and be physically affectionate with them, most of the time (sometime i do have a bad day and don't allow anybody to touch me) but i can't stand the thought of my mom laying a hand on my shoulder even. i'm not really sure what my specific question is, just....why? does anybody have anything to say about this, at all? i don't know this is something that's been this way for maybe 4 years and lately it's just been bothering me a lot, not that i dont want to hug my mom but just....i don't know. i also have adhd if that helps/affects any answers
thank you to anybody who says anything! i appreciate your time and help. (link)
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hi, OP here, i made an account specifically to reply to adviceman49 because i feel this needs to be addressed:
i do appreciate you trying to help but you have not at all answered my question. i mentioned my being trans because i did not want to say i'm a girl bc i'm not, but since my question has to do with mental health i felt just in case it should be known that i was assigned female at birth. the rest of my question was not at all centered around that, nor did i even mention that after the first time. instead, what you've done is essentially say "i don't know how to answer your question because i am not a psychologist, but you should find some way to get a psychologist through the mother that is the problem of the entire question." and then the next two paragraphs you not only pinned my problem on my gender, but also assumed that just bc i mention it, it's an issue for me. you tried to teach me how to be trans basically, and tried to tell me the steps i need to take to be a True Man. can i ask you why you assumed i needed to be educated on this? where in my question did i ever mention needing help on transitioning? i apologize if i'm coming off as rude but i believe that your answer was also rude and several people that i showed this too agree as well.
TL;DR: @adviceman49, you ignored my question almost entirely and then tried to educate me on a topic that i can clearly tell you aren't educated on yourself. ("if you wish to fully transgender" "as your transgender role would dress" "THE surgery" [which surgery? there are actually several]) i've been on this website for several years, and i've noticed that you try to reply to basically every question. now i'd like to give you a piece of advice: before you answer a question, please make sure you know what you're talking about, and make sure you actually address what the question is asking.
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