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Thank you for the advice. I have tried to talk to her several times through letters, email, text and in person but each time she would either ingore me or walk away. She show no respect what so ever. One of the sad things about this whole mess is that her husband and friends believe her. So they have turned us down too in having a talk about this. I don't think there is any solution to this at all. I think I have lost my daughter and my grandchildren. Because there is always going to be someone who believe it. (link)
Just know and pray to god this will get better, This sounds like a situation that can't be solved with the human mind, BUT this can happen with a warm-hearted fellow..GOD. He is giving you a test to see what you will do in this situation,. there is no failing or passing, But it will be a dissapointment to god if you don't ask for his help. I have gone through soooo many situations that are worse, all i did was goto church, ask for forgiveness, and clear my head and bow my head everynight before bed and say my loving prayer, in a about a week, My grandmother has survived cancer. (sorry if that was personal). and she is still alive in healthy today. just be strong, problems like these can only make you better!:)


I got off my period 4 days ago, and had sex the day after. Just as usuall. Since then, there has been reddish/brownish fluids coming out. This happened a few months ago but was very light and almost nothing. But now it's very heavy. I'm thinking maybe last time just tore my hymen a little and this time it truly broke? I'm also having pressure in my lower abdomen as if cramps are about to start up. Is this, in fact, just my hymen being broken or something serious??? (link)
I personally think it's something serious, No normal periods should end like that, You should see a doctor immediatley. Maybe you didnt know it but you could have been pregnant and had a miscarriage, if thats the case you ESPECIALLY need to see the doctor so they can check up on your body because you never know what kind of disease you can catch from having sex. But! If your cramps last more than 4 days i recommend seeing a doctor and if your cramps lasted less...you're fine there should be nothing to worry about.


My 35 year old daughter had brain surgery 2 years ago. She has told everyone she knows that she was raped by her father. It has torn the family apart. Her 5 siblings won't have anything to do with her. Her father and I are heartbroken. She refuses to talk to us about this mess. We have tried several times. She won't even let us see the grandkids. Its been over a year now. I have been married to this man for 38 years. I know nothing happened and so does her siblings. what do or can we do? (link)
I would suggest involving a counselor having you all sit down for a meeting and discuss the situation, Or emailing her that you still love and care about her and the grandkids and it breaks your heart that you can't see them. She is probably feeling guilty and doesnt't want to bring up the subject because she will feel uncomfortable, She probably false accused your husband because she didn't know how you guys would take it and so she just spilled out that lie. Sometimes strange things like this make people too nervous to say anything and be judged so they just say something and make it worse and probably dont even realize it. If she doesnt talk to you after this, she is being stubborn and doesn't realize that family is the most important love she can ever have.




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