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okay. I am going to go get tested for and STD. my brother says that when I give my insurance to the people..this kind of stuff will show on a insurance bill. is this true? i really do not want my mom all in my buisness. i hear 16 years and older you can go to the doctor by yourself. so taking my insurance card in to go get tested and it showing up on a bill is not what i want. cause then my mom will find out. i'm just trying to keep this to myself..atleast. Is there anything about a bill I should worry about? because I talked to the one of the employers that works at the clinic and she says I they need insurance info so they can see if it will cover what needs to be payed. Can some one please help. thanks. (link)
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If you are concerned that you might have an STD, get tested. I don't care how you do it. You need to let your parents know about it. They will be able to help you, and are most concerned about your health. I know this sounds dumb, but finding out if you have an STD now is better than finding out after you have infected others, and have not received treatment for yourself. Most importantly do not have sex with anyone until you find out for sure.
I know this sounds very prude, but, these problems can be eliminated by not having sex. If you are not married or under 18, it is not a good idea anyway. I know you are practicing safe sex, because if you are not this could prove to be very risky and suicidal. Talk to your parents, then get a test. They will of course probably make you feel shamefull, but this is the consequences of your actions. We all have to suffer our consequences. Better to know now than later. I am sure that there is a free clinic somewhere in you neck of the woods that could test you. Good luck and God Bless
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I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm completely lost right now. I used to be a straight A student just half a year ago. Now, I'm messed up. I can't concentrate. I eat all the time. I take long naps and procrastinate on homework. I'm moody, I feel suicidal, worthless. Pathetic. I feel like I'm one of those people who will never amount to anything. My parents don't give me attention anymore and they're giving up on me. I feel helpless. I have all advanced classes and find myself fading in ability to work and everything else. I feel like I can't do it. And just a couple of months ago, Ive been getting As and Bs. Now I'm slipping by the day. I don't do my work. Nothing. I'm lazy. Or I have A.D.D. I don't know. How can I at least try to get my life back on track before Ive messed it up really badly? I'm not failing or anything. But I know I could do better. But I just...can't. I mean..I got my first bf this year...but I don't think that could be the cause of it? It's like a midlife crisis..please help. :( (link)
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You know what your problems are better than anyone else on the face of the earth. Just remember this little tid bit of advice. You are in control of your own destiny. I know you have heard this before, but you have control of what you eat, how you feel, and how well you do in school.
You have not done anything irreversible here. Just change your additude and modify the choices you make for the positive. A.D.D. is just a diagnosis for doctors to give you a fancy medication that will probably limit your creativity and activity. You are young and you have your whole life to look forward to. Most importantly your best years. You will look back one day and realize that your worries and concerns were due to lack of vision. Get your vision of your life in order. Have confidence that what ever life has dished you out, you can handle and overcome. It sounds like you are very bright. You are just confused. Remember, suicide is not an option. Get these thoughts out of your mind. They are the devils works.
Think about it this way. You could be in a much worse situation. You could have no food to eat, you could be living in a country that doesn't allow you to do what you want. This is common throughout the world. Help other people. Smile and make people feel needed. You know if you don't get this yourself that it doesn't make you feel good. This will return to you in many ways.
God loves you. Your parents are probably busy trying to figure out their own issues. Ask them to go to a movie or a walk. They might just take you up on it. I am a father of 4 children, and of course I was a child once. Take control of your situation and be proud that you did it. It will help you in your future endeavors.
Good luck and God Bless.
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I have a really good guy friend who I tell everything to and we hang out almost every weekend and a bit at school. We trust eachother but we have kind of passed the line that we are too good of friends. The problem is for as long as I can remember I have kind of had a crush on him but I always kept this hidden from him cause we are such good friends. People always tell me we'd make a cute couple and our parents love eachother as well. He's helped me through a TON and he scolds me when i give in to peer pressure sometiems (like trying drugs and drinking), he also is always there for me even if he wont admit it.
Whenever I bring up with him the idea of us ever dating, or why we dont like eachother he tells me that Im just such a good friend it would be ackward that he knows we couldnt see eachother like that and that its just way to weird. I hate that. I have alot of guyfriends who would never date me cause Im such a good friend of theirs.
I always help him with his girl problems and compliment him alot when feeling down and such and I dont think he gets it when I compliment him or tell him hes one of the most amazing people Ive met and a girl would be lucky to have him etc. and he always thinks im lying cause hes upset but I really mean it.
I know I cant do anything because I cant compete with all these other girls but sometimes it gets me mad that he sometimes likes girls hes met once and only talked to on msn while he comes over every weekend to my hosue and its just an impossible thought. How can i get over this? (link)
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Just be friends. Your 14, things may or may not develop into more. Keep your eyes open, and be confident in yourself. If your friend is 14 he is probably a little immature to understand what a life partner really means. You have many years to find the person that you will spend your life with. So enjoy your friendship. Some people don't even have good friends. You are lucky.
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