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Hey well, my name is Erini love to give advice since i ask for it so much :] Im a great friend and have little a little brother and sisters so i know the whole family role too. I live in Miami and im a swimmer and proud. I'v lived in America my entire life but my family history is polish and italian, what a unique mix lol. I think steriotyping is overrated! Boy troubles are my specialty. (along with advice on getting that special boy to notice you *hint *hint*) I loovee the color blue and i find myself attracted to guys who are funny and who are honest, i mean what girl wouldnt? I love Rock and Poprock....im into the whole scene kind of music..Panic at the Disco(hence my screenname--im the new cancer) Close to Home, The Starting Line, Cartel,Violence and Sunshine, Jacks Mannequin, Acceptance and so on. Music is sorta my life.

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14/f
I go to boarding school. At school, I'm known as the quiet girl that nobody talks to. I have friends, but not as many as I've had in the past. I really don't like this school, and don't plan on coming back next year. Since I only have a few months left, I wanted to change my reputation and "go out with a bang". What are some ways to do that, and how can I change my rep in a short amount of time so I can enjoy my last months here as much as I can? Thanks in advance.

lets see: hanging out with the guys will get you a good reputation with them but then it will turn all their girlfriends against you. trust me nothing to get yourself into. its pretty nasty stuff. since its your lastmonth and you probally wont ever see these people again, do somehting out of the ordinary like say, ask a guy that you think pretty hot out on a date. hey rejection happens to everyone. if he says yes then dayyumm one point for you. flirt with boys, it will make them talk about you and then youll spread throughout the school. hang out with a total different clan of girls...but whatever you do dont exclude your friends. hit every party you can..and i know its hard since its a boarding school.

good luck!!
---_Erin

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16/F
alright so im 16 and i have yet to have my first kiss, or first real boyfriend, and its not like im ugly or anything, as a matter of fact, im really kinda pritty. (not to over confident of myself though) anyways, i like this guy, and he lives down the street from me. we've talked a couple of times, and he's a grade older than me, any suggestions on how i can maybe get him to like me, with out major flirting,
(im not real good at that)also im really bubbly around my friends but i get kinda shy around him. any suggestions of how to get him to like me?

lol first of all: flirting is no bad thing! its super easy and after you do it once, your sorta so addicted that you cant stop! ok now back to the question. i have a similar situation with me but since hes about egh lets say 3 grades higher than me and hes about to go to college, its not reallt the same thing lol. get is attention first of all. dress real pretty when you know your gonna see him. boys dont really like it when you over-do on the makeup so keep it simple. start a conversation!! thats the one thing i never do and it KILLS ME! invite him when you go places with a bunch of friends just so you guys can hang out more and it wont give him the chance for him to see you shy. if you really like him, you'll lose your shyness when hes around.
good luck!!
_--Erin

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Ok, I am 14, 5'8'' and I am 180lb. I don;t look like i way alot but I know I do. I want to lose some of that weight without loosing my ass or the bit of tits I have, I want to get rid of my love handles and my fat on my stomach, adnm on my legs bellow my ass... Can I get some help on how to lose in thouse areas..

i'd say swimming is GREAT for the legs and "below" the ass. as for the stomach, crunches works wonders. love handles go away with cardio training such as running and swimming too. your tall so you dont really have to worrk about your weight, you're right in the precentile for your height yet i know we're your comming from with wnting to lose weight. good luck!

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