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i was wondering if i recently had sex on my period will i get pregnant still? (link)
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You can still get pregnant if you have sex while you have your period.
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Hey Spacefem, I got a problem. Im in jr high, 7th grade, and one of my friends is really weird. Shes always gossiping and such, and at my school, teachers crack down HARD on stopping it. Im 100% against gossip, 1 because it hurts people, and 2 because its not minding your own business. Im always telling her to stop it, or shell get in big trouble, and she listens slightly, but 10 minutes later she is doing it again, and naturally, gets in trouble. the other day I reminded her of what would happen, and out of nowhere she bursts out "Just stop telling me what to do!" Which I find odd. Even though I constantly remind her to stop gossiping, she tells me to do way more things than I tell her. Im her note-passer, bookkeeper, saxophone-carrier, and a bunch of other random things. Im wondering, what should I do? Am I really being -that- bossy about her getting in trouble? (link)
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From reading your post, I don't think that you were being bossy at all. Trying to help a friend stay out of trouble and reminding them of what could happen if they didn't stop doing those things that could cause them to get into trouble...isn't being bossy. It's simply being a good friend. As far as you doing all of those things that she asks you to do - - - - stop doing them. Yes, friends do favors for friends...but that's a bit ridiculous. She can do all of those things herself. I'm not seeing the "friendship" here. Friends aren't like that w/ friends...friends don't do those kinds of things to friends. Seems to me that she's treating you more like a slave then a friend. Take a step back and look at this situation --- do you really want a person like this in your life?? Someone that bosses you around and asks you to do things for them all the time...things that they could do themselves, things that they themselves probably have time to do but are jus to lazy to do them.
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My husband is a sweet guy but sometimes I think he has his priorities mixed up. He was going to bring his friend flowers for her B-day, which I was fine with, but he found out she is having a few stressful problems and now wants to give her a spa package, which is like $60-$80. We are not poor, but money is a little tight, we already went to an expensive dinner with her, isn't that enough?
I would never spend that much even on my family. What makes me mad is that he is so determined to do something nice for her, but he wouldn't go out and get his mother a card for Mothers Day. Or for Valentines Day I got flowers a week before just because, but on the actual day, I was home sick with the flu and I got nothing, and we never did anything later. I know his heart is in the right place, but I wish he would put the people that really love him up higher on his priority list. Am I being selfish, or jealous, or am I right to be upset? (link)
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I don't believe that you're being selfish or jealous. I think that you have the right to be upset. I believe that I'd be upset as well if I were in a situation like this. Have you tried talking w/ your husband about this? It does seem as if his priorities are a bit mixed up and if you wish that he would put the people that really love him up higher on his priority list then talk w/ him about this b/c if you don't then nothing is going to change and you're most likely going to continue being upset w/ him and that might lead to problems later on. Try sitting him down and having a talk w/ him. Tell him why you're upset. Allow him to see how you're taking all of this in. I mean he wants to give his "friend" a spa package, but yet he couldn't even get his mother a mothers day card for mothers day and he didn't get you anything for v-day nor did he do anything w/ you after you were over the flu. The expensive dinner w/ this 'friend' should be enough especially if the money issue is a little tight w/ you and your husband. Try talking w/ him that's all you can do.
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