Member Since: June 19, 2010
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So they guy I am dating, we'll be dating three months on the first of July. He's been my best-friend for so long. I met him a few months before he started dating his Ex. Well several months after that I started dating a guy.
He dated her a year and a half I dated him a year.
Well he dumped her during February. He just dated a bunch of girls and fooled around a lot for a while, not sex though, he's a virgin. Well on my birthday in March I dumped my boyfriend. I just talked to my guy friend a for a while and he told me his ex girlfriend is constantly texting and calling saying she still loves him and he ruined her life and she can't live with out him. He'd always go check up on her and make sure she was doing okay.
Well a week or two after I broke up with my boyfriend I made out with my guy friend. Us and all of our friends went camping a week after that. We kept it pretty secret that we had something going on. Only two of my friends knew because they caught us. But He asked me out when we were camping. Immediately after I got nasty looks at school. I was friends with his ex's friends and naturally they'd pick sides with her. She'd always call him and cry and say she needed him and that life isn't worth it and make him feel bad. Well I started getting tired of it because she would text me and say I tortured her and that the only guy she wanted was the one I had. I got sick with mono and missed a week and a half of school and he hung out with her because I wasn't there. She invited him to her birthday party at the end of the month. He didn't tell me and it bugged me. When I found out I told him it annoyed me because she still likes him a whole lot. Well how should I approach this on the day of her party. Should I not talk to him? Do I have the right to be upset he's going? What should I tell him that day? I don't know how to approach this but it upsets me a lot.... (link)
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honestly, if he's truly moved on he needs to stop seeing her so much. he can be nice but you need to tell him to make a decision. to tell her to stop acting like this or that you will not date him. you dont deserve a boyfriend so caught up in another girl. yes, you certainly have the right to be upset because he isnt being completely straightfoward with you. if he's your boyfriend then he's YOUR BOYFRIEND, and until that girl accepts it, he should not be spending his time with her because it is VERY disrespectful to you.
hope i helped and good luck, you deserve this and if he truly cares, im sure he will realize your right and not want to disrespect you, and he'll tell her to stop and significantly cut down on seeing her and talking to you. she's manipulating him and it's NOT okay. she knows what shes doing. she KNOWS shes being maipulative and doing it on purpose so you tell him he's gotta cut her out.
if you have more questions message me, i hope i helped! please vote(:
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