Member Since: July 7, 2011
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First of all, no judgements.
If I were to get pregnant with my boyfriend and before the abortion time limit he decides to stray(cheat, leave me, etc) and I find myself suddenly unable to go through with the pregnancy for whatever reason, does he have a right to say no? In other words, can the law stop me from having an abortion if he doesn't want me to have one?
If that were to happen, I don't see why it would be fair that he makes me go through 9 months of hell so he can have the kid when he was unreliable and irresponsible enough to cheat or leave me... once again, no judgements, please. I just need to know my options.. (link)
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Legally, as long as you are less than 24 weeks pregnant, and at least two doctors agree that having the baby would be a risk to your physical or mental health, or the baby's physical or mental health, you may have an abortion without the father's consent.
Though the law is clear, the moral issues of having a baby are not. It is up to you entirely to decide whether terminating the life of your baby is a decision you will cause you mental distress in the long term. Abortion is an option, but is never the only answer, if you were to have the child adopted, you would be giving the new parents the most amazing gift, you would not have to bring up a child that would remind you of the father, and the child would be happier.
Hope that helps and good luck!
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How protected are you using condoms during sexual intercourse?
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Condoms are 97% affective IF:
- the right size (measure by girth not legnth) is used
- they are put on according to the instuctions
- they are not used a second time.
However, when used with the pill, they are 99%+ affective.
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