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Member Since: November 15, 2010
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Last Update: November 15, 2010
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Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for practically 3 years. And he watches porn. Now, I feel horrible whenever I find out he's been watching it. I have low self esteem and feel that when he watches it it's because I'm not pretty enough or whatever. I've told him how his watching porn takes its toll on me, and he promises to stop, which he always ends up breaking that promise :/

I satisfy him in every way possible, my sex drive is up to par, if not, even higher than his! But he just won't give up porn. He'll stop, and go back eventually. This frustrates me so much... What should I do? Should I leave? Thanks in advance :(

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to the comment from christina i think that is stupid what you said if you are a single person porn is ok but when u have the real thing and are hurting your partner because of it its a problem as for the ? at hand i am having the same problem and am not sure what to do i have been with my man for 14 yrs this feb and it sickens me not only that im in the room sleeping while he watches it but the genres of porn he chooses looking for anal rape and women being brutalized is disgusting not only does he want me to do these sick things but tries to hide it and lies to me when i ask him if he watched it i wanna leave but half your life time its hard to just split but its becoming more and more apparent that is what i need to do i made a deal with him no porn at home but when on the road that it was ok seeing as im not there to satisfy him but he cant even do that the past week he has been home every morning he sneaks out of bed at 5 in the morning and watches it!!!! its fucking pathetic really so im there with ya girl torn between love but to tell you the truth im not in love with him as much because of it!




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