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Hey I'm 15 and pretty much loving life. I LOVE LOVE LOVE giving out advice to people because all of my friends say i give out good advice. I hope they are right! I will do my best to answer your questions honestly and precisly! Ask me anything.

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me and my friend told the kid that i like that i like him and it made us better friends but he says he doesnt like me that way but i really really like this kid and i know he wont ever like me like that and i dont know how to deal with that its tearing me up inside

Awww SO SORRY! But if you guys stay friends you never know what will happen. Love is blind and maybe he hasn't been un-masked yet. If you guys get to know each other more, he could fall for you and realize what a great person you are because it seems like you really like him to go out of your way and try to fix it. There is nothing I can say to help ease your pain except to be strong and don't let someone (especially a boy) bring you down, no matter how much you care for them. Ask the freind who helped you tell him to get you through this because obvoiusly he/she cares for you a lot to help with your love life.

I hope I helped even a little. STICK IN THERE YOUR DAY WILL COME!

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ok well i really like a friend of mine and today i told him i did ( online, because i didn't see him today ) and he didn't really respond .. all he said was " i heard you did from a friend " and then a few seconds later he told me he had to go eat dinner and signed off .. what does this mean ? how can i take care of feeling awkward around him ? what do i say ? thanks

This is so weird, I have been in the same situation! From the sounds of it, he may not like you, BUT it depends don't think that yet.

My quetion is, how good of friends are you guys? Because if you guys are reeaaly good friends this could be a total shock to him (IF he doesnt like you back) because maybe just maybe hes stupid and didn't think anyhting would come out of the freidnship, besides... well a friendship.

On the other hand, he may be one of those shy guys who doesn't like to show their feelings all that much nomatter how much they may like a girl. So ask yourself, 'Has he been really flirty with me lately?" Or "Have I ever caught him staring at me a little?" Or the big one, well kinda not really but whatever... "Has he ever acted annoyed or jealous when or if I talke daobut another guy to him?" If these are somewhat relative toy your situation I'm guessing he likes you. Maybe he is concerned about the freindship. Like "What if we go out and break up, will we ever be freinds again?" This could show how much he really care about the two of you, which is also good if it is true. I know I don't know him personally but I hope I got at least a little close. If I'm waaaay off, I'm really sorry.

One more bit of advice, next time you talk to him (try to do this online he might be a lil more comfortable with it) make him talk to you and ask him whats up, but dont't force the relation ship!

I hope this doesn't sound too cheesy like a magazine article lol. But I have had this same sitch! And this worked for me. HOPE I HELPED YOU! good luck to you!

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Hi my name is Jess im 13 years old and i like this kid who is 14 hes really hot and i love his personality. He likes me and i like him i asked him out and he said yes but he wants to get to know me better. so for the past 2 weeks be got to know eachother more and more. So now when i ask him to go out with me he smiles. What can i do to get him to say yes i really love him. Help

You guys sound really cute! aww... But anyways... personally, I think you should just get ot know him more (I know I know you already have) but you can't expect too much after two weeks, I have a freind like that and she gets hurt all of the time because she likes to rush things.

But on the other hand, he can be playing hard to get, you never know. It sounds to me like he likes you a lot too. Maybe you should try what he is doing and play the same game as him. Flirt with him and let him sweat it out, maybe it will make him want you even more! Hope I helped!


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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong?

Wow I feel the same way as you do. Whatever you do, don't try them. But people i know started smoking even in the 6th grade and it is terrible I agree. They are most likely doing this because of peer pressure or because they have some issues they need to work out. What I don't understand is the fascination of it. They know they will ruin their lives, but that is their choice. You are doing the absolute right thing by not joining in with them and I give you major props for that!

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what ? sould i ask u

umm...? I dk lol. Who is this?

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Hi my name is aaron. i used to have alot of friends most were girls and lots of girlfriends. But now none of them relly pay attention to me do any girls know what i can do to get them to like me...i have hered about ignoring them

Definitly don't ignore them. Just talk to them a little bit and give them space, usually girls would get intruiged and want to talk to you more. Only flirt with the girls you actually like though. Maybe they don't pay attention to you because they got tired of you and you are around them too much? Or sometimes girls try not to talk to the guys they like (if they like u like that) so they don't get on the guy's nerves. They will come around eventually!

Good luck
-Amanda

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