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Member Since: December 22, 2004
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Last Update: December 22, 2004
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
tell um ur havin an abnormal period


I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?

thnx so much, i really need your help! (link)
its normal


Okay so my boyfriend was fingering me and like he saw that there was blood on his finger [not much just kinda around the bed of his nail] I thought maybe I had started my period but just a few minutes I went to the bathroom and I didn't. But it kinda burned and there was like brown stuff [like discharge]. What is wrong? (link)
prolly scrached u


16/f.... this may be a stupid question, but what are those people called that you talk to about your problems and you tell them everything and then they give you advice and everything is confidential. They do it for a living. Nothing SERIOUS is going on in my life (ex. I'm not pregnant, I don't go drugs, I'm not a lesbian, etc.), but I feel like I can't talk to my parents (about guys or whatever) I never have and I probably never will. I'm an only child and I've been the center of their lives for 16 years and I hate it. I always have...I wish I can share the spotlight with someone, but thats not going to happen. Sometimes I wish they didn't care about me AS MUCH as they do. I feel like I need to go see one of those people because I've kept so much inside of me all my life and now I think I need to deal with a professional who can help me. And I'm afraid of a lot of things (I always have visions of disturbing things in my head, but thats a different story). How can I tell my parents I need one of those people without hurting them? (link)
counsuler


I have been working so hard in school. and my mom wont let me do anything! i have worked my butt off, and all she will let me do is work more! She expects me to read books in one day, yet she doesnt believe i can write an essay in one hour when i am determined to go to a play with my friends! I am getting so tired, i have had so much pressure on myself i feel like i am going to crack under it! PLEASE help me! what do i do!? I am pratically being grounded from a life! Even though its winter vacation she wont let me do hardly anything now either! She went shopping today right after i woke up..so i didnt wanna go, becuz i had just woken up..and she was lke. How about you read a book or something! agh! All of this work isnt making my brain stronger! Its making it over-pressured and weak! I really need advice! (link)
tell her how u feel she may not relize this


i recently moved with my mom and brother just into town. i still go to the same school and everything. we dont have alot of money, while my friends do. i know for christmas i'm not going to get very much, and i'm ok with that.. but my friends go on about alll the stuff they're getting, and i dont want to hear about it. what's a polite way to tell them to just back off and shut up? (link)
just kindly explain to them how u feel if u dont tell them they will never know




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