Member Since: December 28, 2006
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I have crash on this guy for a while. I asked him out the first time, he said yes, but cancelled on me on the day we suppose to go out. And second time, he asked me out, but cancelled out again. Now he appolized and said let's go out next week. Am I going to say yes?
I don't want to show how easy I am that he can just cancel on me all the time without considering my feeling, but in the same time, I do want to go out with him.... What should I do? (link)
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Tell him Yes tell him the 3rd time is the charm Have him meet you at a public place Skating rink bowling alley Swim pool what ever you think you and him would enjoy ask him what kind of things he likes to do? pick something you both like. Explain to him it will be dutch treat he pays his way and you pay yours eats drinks every thing you pay your own way Tell him he can leave any time he gets ready and you can leave any time you get ready leave separately and see how it goes Then from there work on the second date
1 It gives you a chance to get to know each other.
2 Elimates money problems if there is any.
3 Makes him feel as if he is not on a time schedule or any type of comment.
4 Also pick a place where you can go ahead and enjoy yourself if he does't show and I do mean that Say you pick a bowling alley If he doesn't show go ahead and bowl enjoy your own company Who knows may be some friends will show up and you all can bowl together
5 Your showing him that he has not ruined your day by his cancellation
6 It makes him not to have to apolozie or feel guilty if he can't make it.
7 If he cancels or don't show mark him off and move on it is his lost or if you have a relationship later on it will be you that is being cancelled on more regular then changes your socks good luck
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