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ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
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Ok, well first off let me tell you that 15 is a young age. Now it sounds like your bf cares about you a lot. It also sounds like he will be ok if you choose not to have sex at this moment. I cant tell you how to get over it, because it all depends on your mind, your body, and him. Listn, when your ready you'll know, trust me on that. Theres deff. gonna be pain, since its your first time. But before you run off and have sex answer this to your self: 1. is he relly the love of your life? 2. do you want to lose your virginity so him? 3. will he leave once he gets it from you? 4. are u ready for the possible public humillation. Having sex will have a public effect too. If he tells his friends they tell theirs and it will get around. What about your paretns....think of them to. What do they think and if you do it on your own. and they find out..then what..write back if you ned further help
hope i helped you
KC
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