Member Since: March 9, 2012
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Last Update: March 9, 2012
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21 Female. Boyfriend is 19
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now. We are so comfortable with each other when it comes to being sexual. He loves everything about me and I love everything about him. We've done just about everything, the only thing we haven't done is him eating me out because I'm not comfortable with that yet.
Anyways, I occasionally will give him a HJ. Some times it takes longer than other times for him to finish. Sometimes I'm thinking 'OMG will you finish already my hand is hurting!' And I know he is enjoying it by how he acts and what he says. I've only given him a BJ twice. The first time he finished and it wasn't that bad. The last time, which was last weekend, I had to stop because my neck was in so much pain & I was getting tired. I have bad neck problems (I go to the chiropractor twice a week) and I was doing it for about 20 min and I said sorry babe I have to be done I'm in pain. He didn't finish that time. I felt SO bad that I didn't make him finish. I offered to try and finish him with a HJ but he said no that was fine. Well that night when I went home I felt really guilty and so I texted him and said 'I feel like such a bad girlfriend for not letting you finish, but I got so tired and my neck was killing me' and he said baby don't worry about it, you're not a bad girlfriend at all I love you and it was still amazing.
I still feel really bad, what if my neck starts hurting the next time I do it and he doesn't finish again? I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or what. He just seems like he takes forever. Is there anything else I can do? I know he is enjoying it and I know what he likes but I don't know what else to do. I'm a little worried now. (link)
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My fiance is the same way. It just takes some guys longer to get off. Next time I would start with the BJ and finish with a handjob but let him finish in your mouth or on your breasts. (I know it sounds weird but he'll love it trust me). During handjobs I find it easiest to be sitting up against the headboard with a few pillows propping my back up. Then have him put his head at the end of the bed and lay next to you. You can also have him lay between your legs with your legs on top of his. Your back wont hurt and its easy access cuz he can see everything you're doing. For the BJ I think its easiest if I sit on the floor and have him lay or sit on the bed. My neck doesnt feel like it will break off lol
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