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Member Since: September 22, 2011
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Last Update: September 22, 2011
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My ex had to dump me because his dad said that I was a bad influence on him. Now he's not even allowed to talk to me but he and I both love each other and it sucks that we can't be together!
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don't worry all you need to do is date him secretly! you go to school don't you?!?! so hang out at school and tell his dad he has after school stuff and he can skip that and hang with you! you just need to be real secret about it until your old enough to where he doesn't have control or when he can except you all's love for each other!! :) hope it works out!!!


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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months, and I want to break up with him simply because I don't like him in that way anymore. I haven't for the past month. Whenever he kisses me now, I get seriously disgusted and want to avoid more kissing at all costs. The problem is, my and this guy have been really good friends for about two years now and I do not want to lose him as a friend. He is so sweet and nice and I don't want to hurt him, but the feeling just isn't there for me anymore. But he thinks nothing has changed, because nothing has changed! I'm worried he's going to be totall shocked because there has been nothing leading up to this, no fade out. How do I break up with him so that we can still be friends? And do you think this will shock him because I really don't think he has any idea what's coming, he texted me that he loved me tonight and I feel so bad. Also, I only see him at lunch at school and I don't want to text the breakup to him but I don't want to arrange a date because he will get excited (and text me about the, um, stuff we're going to do that involves kissing- he always does that before dates.) But I don't want to destroy his day halfway through school. When should I do it? And I feel terrible, I don't want to hurt him. (link)
catch him after school and tell him you really like him you just wanna be friends and thats all. give it some time, before u become just his friend because he mite need a few weeks to process the breakup and make sure to tell him that he can find someone els because he is so fabulous! and just do it sweetly and slowly. because breaking up is really hard but its not like your first few boy friends are going to turn into husbands or anything so u have to do it some time :) hope it goes well and my advice helped




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