hey! well i just started this thingy. we'll see how it goes... =]
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are you really a stripperr? (link)
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nope =)
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k so i have this theri that if u do a lot with a guy he'll want more to soon. Now i think my bf wants to kiss everytime we part and i dont so i find myself saying stuff just so i can get away. its not that i dont want to kiss him but he wont kiss in a movie theater so..... i don't no i dont want to say this cuz its weird. i feel better i f we just kissed but theres always tounge (not thats its a bad thing...lol) please help me!!! (link)
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Tell him how you feel. :) I know, it seems hard, but its not and you'll be relieved afterwords. Hope I helped. :) Please rate my advice and view my column. Thank you!
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Did anyone marry someone their high school love?!
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Of course! If you're really and truely in love, then yes, you'll make it even after high-school! Most people don't, but if you really feel strong about it and want it, it'll happen. Hope I helped. :) Please rate my advice and view my column. Thank you!
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Heyy everyone. I just got over a minor soore throat and a cold. But now I have a really really runny and atuffy nose. My throat is alot better, it just feels tight when i swallow. Is there anyway I can make this head cold go away before 7:00 tonight? thanks! (link)
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Hey ... aw I hope you feel better. Take some tyleno and just get plenty of rest, drink lots of fluids. I'm not sure if it'll make it go away that fast, but yeah it speeds up the process. Hope you get betterPlease rate and view my column!
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I have this boyfriend and I need some serious advice. I love him do not get me wrong on what i am about to say. He is an alcoholic. It didn't bother me at first. He used to let me do what i wanted when i wanted and now it's like i have to beg and plead with him to do what i want to do. He expects me to be at his house as soon as i get off work. If i'm not he's mad and we fight. Not all the time but..the majority. He gives me a time to be home and i am . When i tell him a time he says he will do as he pleases.
sometimes he is real mean to me. I cry cause it hurts me. somdays it's like he doesn't want to be together anymore. So then i told him if you want me to leave i will leave. I will get my shit and never come back. Then he pleaded with me . he said no. I love you please don't leave. We play around and sometimes he plays to rough. It's like he doesn't care. I let him go to girls house or even be alone with a girl. But..if i do the same he accuses me of cheating.
He has only hitt me twice out of anger. I buy his cigs,his beer and any thing else he wants.Sometimes he calls me mean names and I've asked him not to. It feels somtimes like he wants hiss cake and he wants to eat it to. Please help me. I don't know what to do anymore. (link)
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you said,
"He has only hitt me twice out of anger."
Let's rephrase - "He has hit me twice."
There is no 'only' and no excuses. You have a damn compelling reason to get him out of your life. He's abusive, controlling and an addict. You deserve better. People who love each other do not do the things that he does to you. He doesn't love you, but he doesn't want to lose you because then who would be his errand runner and punching bag?
You can not change him, you don't have that power. Get out of this relationship now.
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I've read all the "how do you know you're in love" questions in the archive, and I've asked a few friends, and all the situations involve either knowing immediately or not knowing for a couple of years. My Boyfriend and I have been going out almost a month now, and I *think* I'm falling in love with him. the thing is, people keep telling me "you'll just know... love isn't rational". I'm an overly analytical person. I need evidence.
And i've never had a boyfriend before, and he's never had a girlfriend before, so we have no experience to base this on. to be honest, I'm not sure how we knew what we were doing the first time we made out. As far as background goes, we were friends for over a year, I agreed to go to his prom as a friend (my exact words were "If you're desperate, I'll go with you," to which he responded "I was going to ask you, but I didn't think you'd want to go"). whenever one of us called the other to iron out the details, we just kept talking. our first date was the friday after his prom. we both entered this completely inexperienced, and plan to wait until marriage for sex. Now, I know I love him... I don't know how. That is, am I in love? is this a mutual crush? are we just really close friends with a some lust thrown in? I want to figure this out before I bring it up with him. this is a big deal and I refuse to use the L word until I'm absolutely sure. That's why I need all the help I can get :) and maybe I'm just going about this all wrong. (link)
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Or maybe you're going about it all right. I must agree with you that Love is a word not to be taken with a grain of salt. But you two sound like a great couple. It's, not only awesome, but very responsible of you two to wait until marriage before having sex.You said you have known one another for a year now, and that's great you picked someone who knows you well. Now you say you know you love him but you don't know if it's really lust or a crush. Well, look at the chances of it being lust and the chances of it being a crush. Lust is always a sexual attraction, but you say you do not plan to have sex until your married ("people applauding") so it's most likely not lust. A crush is a strong, temporary feeling of attraction, you've known each other for a year and then you developed feelings for one another so it's probalay not a crush either. You very well might truly love him. Look at these qualities in him: do you think he'd make a good father? does he always look at you best interest? will he always be there for you? does he share the same beliefs you do? If all these were a yes, I can't see how you wouldn't truly love him. Love isn't always accompanied by a rapid heart rate, a fluttering stomach, and uncontrollable breathing,because that feeling is temporary. I'm not your only resource on information of love (true love that is) if you read 1Corinthians 13: 4-13 it tells you all the properties true love has. You two sound like there is a future in your relationship, but there's no need to rush to say you love him he should be able to pick that up already.
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