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Member Since: April 6, 2009
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when me and my boyfriend dry hump i get an orgasm (im a girl btw) and then like my sex drive just goes down and i don't feel like doing it anymore. so like i try my hardest not to have an orgasm til later..is this normal? and what can i do to make sure i don't have one so quick? (link)
I must say this is a good question by you saying i am dryhumping you are young so stop dry humping because the next step is sex i hope you know this the guy is only going to do this for so long before he wants the real thing so stop opening a door you dont want to open unless you want to its up to you and you only....{live life dont let life live you}[esa]


i need to open up and i need confidence (link)
Hey you dont need help from any one you are the master of your own destiny and I can stand on my own two feet... repeat this every day to your self....{live life dont let life live you}[esa]


Ok so some of you may have read my question before about Jordan and Coston and i was wondering if anyone has ever felt this before but i have been with Jordan for so long that i dont know how to be without him does anyone know how to make this go away??? And how do i tell Jordan that i cant be with him anymore?? Thanks =] (link)
Go with Jordan, just because you dont know what it feels like to be with someone else is not a good reason because once you get out their it might not be anything better than you got and jordan will be gone.....{live life dont let life live you}[esa]


I'm completely depressed. I'm a 21 year old female college student at an out of state college though at the end of the current semester I will be moving back home to finish school at a university near my home. I have a great boyfriend but for some reason I just feel like I'm a walking zombie. I miss him and I miss home even though my family at home is basically in an all out war started by my younger brother's dabbling in pot. I haven't seen a psychiatrist or any other doctor because I don't have the time being in school constantly and working and living somewhere where I basically know zero people and zero about the city. I wake up wishing I could just sleep forever. I don't know how to communicate how I feel to my boyfriend and now he's just getting frustrated with me. I have a problem with anger here too but it's mostly because I can't express what I'm feeling and what the problem is because I don't know it. If anyone has any advice that is helpful and isn't a criticism I'd be thankful for it. I just need help right now, not judgment. (link)
I am going to make these nice and sweet you are a 21 year old female in college in a new city where no one knows you,these is the prime of your life dont worry about things you dont have control of go out in the new city have some fun and meet some new people i am pretty sure thats why you picked to go out of state in the first place so get up and get to it..... oh yea call your brother and tell him to leave the weed alone and pick up a book or a girl what ever gets his attention besides pot....{live life dont let it live you{[esa]
















Hey im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m. Tonight we had unprotected sex and he accidently cummed in me. Im on YAZ birth control and never miss any days. We are talking about getting the day after pill or plan B. But im not exactly sure how that works etc. Could i get pregnant even though i am on birth control? Thanks ALOT! (link)
Yes you can get pregnant if you are on birth control but if you take the birth control like you are supposed to it is a 97% chance you can go to your doctor and she you are go get the early sign pregnant test for cvs are any drug store and parent planethood can get you the day after pill....{live life dont let it live you}{esa}


For the past 4-5 years of my life, I have been struggling with the realization that I am most likely a lesbian, and at the very least bisexual. I don't consider myself homophobic in the least, but admitting to myself that getting married to a nice boy won't make me happy has been difficult.

I have had a limited number of same-sex encounters with other girls, but nothing too serious. I am now in college, and ready to face my future bravely and with certainty.

I am not sure how to explain this to my close friends. I feel uncomfortable. I'm not sure how to begin living out this "new chapter" in my life. Any advice? (link)
It sounds like to me that you are unsure about it because you are asking us and that there is a clear sign, second you are still young how do know a man {not a boy} cant make you happy i think u need a little more time to work things out with your self and you dont need a man or women to do that "live life dont let it live you"{esa}


How do gay men have sex? I was just curious and wanted to know what happens. I'm a girl so I don't know. (link)
Up the butt or oral sex




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