Member Since: May 10, 2008
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Last Update: May 10, 2008
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i like a beautiful person whom i have never actually met. he is intellectual, independent, has great style, and from what i hear he may never have even had a girlfriend. but something about the way he thinks about life intrigues me ever so much. i spoke to his good friend who told me that he is somewhat withdrawn at times and although many cute girls like him, he wont just settle for a pretty face, he wants something more.
and i am the same way as this guy. i like to be me, and dont like to feel smothered, i like to read books and listen to music and find some meaning to life. but my best friend is convinced that he is her soul mate although they have never met. hes like the perfect guy for her appearance wise and she likes the way his personality is. she does not know that i like him, because i dont want this to turn into some kind of friend competition. well the point is i have to talk to this guy and get to know him and then introduce them, lol. i dont really mind, i mean i want her to have him because i dont need a boyfriend but she really likes him a lot. i see him at a certain time of day. how do i introduce myself? do i just say hey whats up? haha. thanx =]
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continueing to like this person without sharing that with your best friend would be wrong if she sees him a soulmate. if this person is actually your best friend, she will understand what you feel and you will be able to work through it. if not it may be difficult for you to stop liking him. chose between the friend-ship or this 'intellectual guy'. beware that the guy may not be what you expect and friend-ships are fragile. if you meet him you could feel temptation to flirt which is unfair to your friend. try an atypical aproach for this unusal guy and be careful not to betray the best friend's trust. talk to his close friend again to hear about his interests and use them to start conversation.
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