Member Since: December 21, 2009
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Last Update: December 23, 2009
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My boyfriend of 14 mths told me recently he joined the Air force. However he told me after everyone else new and over two weeks after he told everyone else. His friends, the lady who cuts his hair, even my neighbor knew before I did. I feel very hurt not just in the fact he kept something from me like that, but the fact he lied to me. He lied to me by saying that he was hanging out with his friends when actually he was joining the air force. I guess I just figure with as long as we dated he could at least be honest with him. I've been completely 100% honest with him from the beginning. I'm am extremely hurt as of right now and been thinking about ending it for the past week and a half. Besides he could be gone for a yr to two at a time. I just don't see it working out. Am I a horrible person if it does end? And also do you think he was just trying to protect me by not telling me till almost 2 wks after he joined? When he told me it was in the middle of a fight we were having and he said that was a good time to tell me then any other. How is that? I asked a few of my friends and they said he was just trying to protect me. None of them really want to get that involved because they said it's a very touchy subject. ERR! I just dunno. Please help me! (link)
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Maybe the reason he didn't tell you was because he thought you'd try and persuade him to change his mind? And he kept putting off telling you because he knew you'd be upset. Why else would he not tell you? He's got nothing to gain from not telling you. And he probably told you in the middle of the fight because he wanted to have it all out then and there, and not solve this fight, only to get into another one when he told you his plans. I understand you want 100% honesty, but it's not as if he did this to hurt you...
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