Member Since: December 20, 2009
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say you've dated someone for 1 year and 6 months...can love just fade? (link)
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Ive been with someone for a year and he broke up with me because he said it was boring and his love faded which was total bullshit because he was with someone else a week later. Im with someone else now its been two years and the love hasn't faded. IF its with the right person and its real love, just being with that person and not doing anything with them should be exciting enough. Spending time with them should be enough. If its fading because your relationship has turned into a routine or like a job (ok its monday i gotta go see....) then it might not work out, you need to do things together and if its real love it shouldn't fade away.
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ok i had sex with like only 4 guys would you be able to tell. i mean would i be super loose or no if so is there anything icould do to make myself tighter again (link)
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it doesn't matter how many guys you've been with. It only stays loose when your at the time of having sex. The next day you should be good to go again woo
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Ok i now i usually give da advice, but when i give advice to myself bout guys i usually end up pickin the wrong thing but when i do it for other people i give da right advice and they dont have any regret it so please help.
Ive told my bf (19 year old) that i feel like he dont love me anymore because he never talks to me and when i email him he dont email me back he says he has a lot of emails like a 100 or some sh** and deletes all of dem and when we do talk much we have a short converstation unless i contiune it and it always takes him bout 2 mins to answer. He said hmm am i sure its him losing love and not me i wanted to slap him cause i love him so much and dont wont to lose him but on the other hand it doesnt seem like he loves me anymore. We've been dating for 5 months now. BTW im 14. Anyway i screamed at him tellin him why would he ask that stupid question and that i loved him dearly i told him he hated me and he said no he didnt but i feel he does so i ran off and he didnt come after me this happened yesterday so idk. I tried dumping him about 3 weeks ago and he made me feel guilty about it and its so easy to make me feel guilty about it cause i love him so much. Tell me what i should do!
Q1:Does he still love me? If so why is he acting like this?
Q2:What should i do?
Thank you :(
Jay (link)
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Okay since you are 14 and a freshman in hs and he is 19 and either out of hs or very close to getting out he is becoming distant from you so you can break up with him because he doesn't want to deal with breaking up with you. At this stage in his life he is moving on either to college or somewhere else. Because you are younger he has to wait for you for 4 more years. If you can picture that if you were in his shoes you might feel the same way too. You have to wait for them to get out of school, hw and other thigns that you might be occupied with. He is 19 and he wants to go out and do other things. Not only that but he might want someone his age so he can have things in common with them. IF he didn't chase after you might be because he doesn't care and if he takes forever to answer you back its because if he stays distant the relationship will just die off. I would suggest ending it with him for many reasons, and you should find someone around your age so that you won't have to worry about this. You think you love him because you see him all the time? but that will all change when you meet someone real and see how they really treat you. Someone who loves you should be thinking about you 24/7 and always trying to see you, talk to you, make everything about you. You will find someone like that and when you do you'll def know!!!
good luck!
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