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Q: Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go

ASK HER OUT!!! NOW!!! you will never know what you might lose until its gone GO FO IT!!!

Q: Does anybody know any good love songs, from a girl to a guy. for a long distance relationship??

love song, by 311 is a perfect long distance love song

Q: Im a 15yr old girl, i met this girl on holiday 3 yrs ago, she wrks in a bar and i've been back to the same place 4 times since we first met. We get on extremely well, shes 30 and got a boyf wit a step son who she tries to hook me up with just for a laugh. When im on holiday there i go 2 the pub n we jus sit n chat all day, bout any random stuff. She really nice and when im home i txt her regularly. since my last couple of visits however i think about her alot, most days, not like sexually or anythink jus in a nice way. im really worried incase im like becoming obsessed with her. i count the days till i will next see her, please tell me if this is wierd?!

Not neccesarily, as long as you still think of her as a FRIEND. note how i capitalized that. Every kid is entitled to an "adult friend". Someone you can talk to when you don't want to talk to parents. that is perfectly normal. as long as you keep at that you can sleep easy knowing your not insane

Q: hey!
Im in theater class and i have to do a monoluge containing a conflict in it. I really want to awake feelings in people and by uniuqe...one that no one will have. most of the ideas i came up with are already taken such as playing a teenager with a defect and his issues, or about to love someone or forget someone. im really kinda clueless right now, and i need as much as i can get. If you're going to answer this, please make sure u dont give me some relevent ideas, but something that u think if is acted well, could awake strong feeling in the crowd. thank u very much!! have a good day =D

good question! lets see... try doing a monolouge of something you care about, whether it be about suicide, dealing with drugs, losing a parent (i'm giving you hints here :)) just remember, it would be just as good to do a monolouge thats not as powerful that you can really relate to and have experience with.
-nikki

Q: okay im 14/f...and ive been best friends with this guy for 3 years and hes been in love with me for 3 years, we've never done anything sexually er w/e..but hes been wait'n on me fer 3 years and ive had like 5 er 6 boyfriends in the last 3 years but he still stuck with me...soo i went out with this one guy over the summer and at the beggining of the school year for 3 months and i broke up with him and my best friend was rly sad b/c i went out with him..and it never rly bothered him before but then when me and this guy broke up my best friend caught us in the hallway makin out and that lead him to cutting...witch i got him to stop that now but i felt rly bad...but now i dont like my ex-boyfriend and ive ALWAYS had feelings for my best friend but i never realized how strong they were this past like month....and i mean hes always loved me and hes always been there for me so i dont know if i should go out with him or just be friends...b/c i mean we do everything together and wherever you find him youll find me and wherever you find me youll find him...so i rly dont know what to do b/c my ex-boyfriend is still in love with me and i dont know b/c i dont wanna hurt him by goin out with my best friend er w/e so what do you think i should do? should i hook up with my best friend?

i know this is going to sound really cliche, but follow your heart, if you have feelings for your best friend, i mean stong feelings, then you should go for it. but just to cover your self, but only if you can trust him, tell your ex your feelings, so he doesn't get to jealous.
-nikki