Q: my friend, ashley, and i argue ALL THE TIME. i dont even really know why anymore. we'd been friends since about a year and a half ago, and we have these arguments, which turn into fights because i get pissed do easily. then when i get pissed, she gets pissed and it turns into a fight, and we end up not talking until the other one apologizes.
our most recent fight was because she said something and i commented on it, saying something i thought was true, and she proved me wrong and then we argued about that for a while. (this was on AIM) and then she wanted to change the subject cuz she was getting mad. so then she said something about herself, and i commented on that, but she misunderstood me, saying that i didnt know everything about her and that i need to quit talking down on her for things i dont know.
see, i thought we told eachother everything. and then i figured out that it was just me venting, and her listening, and never really letting me into her personal life. and i hate it when people know everything about me but i thought we had a good relationship. obviously not.
so anyways, she took what i said the wrong way, and logged off and told me that she'll talk to me when she cools down. my moods lift up and down so quickly, so i told her that i'd be over it waay before her. and then i found out that she was still mad from a fight we'd had a week ago! and i thought we were both over it!
what im asking here is how in the world can we still be good friends, without me trying to pry into her life so ill be sure not to say anything stupid, that can be misinterpretted.
we mostly get in fights over texts and AIM. we never fight when we're talking on the phone or in person, if that helps any.
i just want to know what im doing wrong so i can fix it, and things can go back to the way they were when we had first started being friends. :(
