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ok so theres my best friend, we'll call her A. A was friends with another girl, B. were all seniors in high school now. so A & B were really good friends up until last year, B started hanging out with the popular party girls and started spending all her time sneaking out, drinking nonstop, and gettin herself into situations with guys and basically went from a good girl to a party girl whore. she did a complete 180, basically. so A told B that she hated the way she had changed and wouldnt be friends with her when she was like that. so they werent friends. This year, B stopped hanging out with those girls for the most part and came back to reality and stopped all the excessive partying, so A and B are friends again. well at the end of last year, my best friend A got really heavy into partying. all summer she'd go to parties almost every night, and couldnt wait to get high and drunk and fool around with random guys she'd sometimes barely know. she basically became the person that B was who she said she didnt like. she has laid off the weed, i guess, but the other night her and two other girls went off and got high off a large amount of pills, and all she talks about these days is going and getting drunk and where the next party is. everything is liquor liquor liquor. she's invited me to go to parties with her, which it usually ends up that im not able to because of work or something, but i wouldnt mind going every once in a while, but i do not want to be in the wild crazy party all the time livin off alcohol and gettin high kinda scene. im to the point where i almost want to do to her what she did to B, tell her that i hate the way she is now and dont wanna associate with her if shes gonna have partying on the brain 24/7. the thing is though is that i dont want to do that. i love her to death, we've been good friends for going on 4 years, and shes an amazing person. we have so many good times and shes fun to be around and has been there for me when i need her. i just hate that she cant go a day without talking about getting drunk or high, and thats basically all she does besides go to school and sleep. shes even driven drunk and other stupid stuff like that. shes a model, a straight A student, and so much fun, and i hate what shes doing to herself, but i know her, and there would basically be no talking her out of this lifestyle, but i dont wanna lose one of my best friends. what's a girl to do? (link)
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well this has never happened to me, but well since A told B that she didnt like the way she was acting, maybe B realized that she needed to stop or shes going to loose a good friend. So if you just tell A that you dont like the way shes acting, maybe she'll realize that she might loose a good friend like you and then stop doing that. sorry, i hope that helps :]
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