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Hello im 18/f and my bf is 21/m sorry this is kinda long but i rate high :) so i work with my boyfriend and we have been together for about 10 months and we really do love each other! But there are only a couple things i dont like at all that he does for example he smokes alot of weed. Like in the beginning of our relationship we talked about it and he said he'd cut down and he said he only did it once a week. Now after all this time of dating hes starting to admit that hes doing it more and more and i told him i was like i thought we had an agreement. And hes like well thats who i am and hes not going to change. I dont want to lose him but i really dont want to deal with all that. Like after i leave his house he'll tell me im going to go smoke now. It just makes me mad. And i know he really does love me and i dont want to make him mad by keep pushing him to stop. Thats one situation and the next is i trust him 100% and theres a girl we work with shes the same age as him and has her own apartment and such. I know he would never cheat on me i just always have the what ifs in my head. He's a big jokester at work and will trip people and just be goofy, especially with the girls but thats just how he is and tonight he told me he was going to her house with a couple of the people that he closed with and i know they're probably going to smoke weed. I just am worried he might do something when hes high. I hope not but i guess im paranoid. I mean she is pretty she has her own apartment and him and a couple guys are going over there tonight. Ughh i just dont know what to do about any of this. and i dont really want to talk to him about going to her house because he told me his friend just broke up with his girlfriend because he would go to other girls houses. Then my boyfriend casually brought that up to me that he hopes i never do that. I just dont know what to do. Somebody please help :( Thanks! (link)
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well yeah Melody is an idiot. I think you should let him smoke as much weed as he wants though. I personally smoke daily and I know that when your high its nothing like being drunk. You can control your actions 100%. (and I smoke good shit) If hes not smoking around you then just let the poor guy be. It might hurt, but thats who he is. If its a huge problem for you then sit him down and tell him that its either you or weed. But being a guy I know hell either give in and get made fun of by the guys (which is no fun and it shows that he loves you but also he might be considered a bitch) but let him do what he wants with that girl, If he cheats then dump him. Hes no good if he cheats alright? But definetly tell him what is on your mind!!! I hope my advice helped and good luck :)
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What's the best John Steinbeck book? I've read the Red Pony and really liked it. I heard the Grapes of Wrath but was unsure if it was worth the read (is it?). I'd like to read some more of his books though. Any recommendations on what to read next by John Steinbeck? (link)
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Of mice and men is a really good book and most kids read it in school during their freshmen or sophomore year
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17/m. Hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 weeks - we were friends for 7 months before that. Whenever we talk on the phone, there are times where there's silence. And no-one says anything. It's rather wierd - on msn or in person it's ok. Is this normal? Will our relationship ok?
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Jack is 100% right
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I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now. Before he started liking me he asked me to find him a girlfriend. After hanging out a couple of days, i started to like him. We went to the movies etc. When he kissed me I thought for sure that we were going to end up dating. But just a couple of nights ago, he told me that he wanted to slow it down. Im my picture nothing was ever going fast. i asked him also why do you want to slow it down? He told me that he is not ready for a girlfriend. What does this mean? im so confused right now. Thanks! (link)
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people who arent ready for a relationship when they know they like someone really arent worth your time. I like a girl too who's not ready and thinking of giving up and moving on. I know its the hardest thing to ever do ever if you really like him. but he's either a horndog (most of us guys are) or he is one of those people who arent that into relationships
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hi my name is Sarah(girl/15) and i have a little bit of a problem actually a big problem i like one of my friends. his name is Josh(boy/15) and we've known each other for about 3 months. i don't know if he likes me or not and I'm really shy so i cant ask him out and if i do and he said yes i wont know what to do because he will be my 1st boy friend and my parents might not let me date. so i NEED some major help DX (link)
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he likes you probably and if your parents arent ok with you having a boy at 15 years old they can get over it. A girl shouldnt be worried when asking a guy out its the other way around
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