Member Since: March 19, 2005
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Last Update: March 19, 2005
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I have so much going on in my life right now and i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to and i found out all the people i thought were my friends are just using me or are just jerk and my family is always fighting and my parents are divorced and i had to live up to all these high standardands and i cant get over this guy ahhhh i dont want to go back to my bad habits...drinking...drugs...cutting...any of that can you please help me (link)
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It's a really good thing that you can see the bad in all your old habits, and that you don't want to go back to them. I give you props for that. I think you should just take one thing at a time, starting with your friend and family relationships, also your relationship with God, if you have one. These relationships are the balance of life, and the root of all problems is usually here. I'd begin with your family. Try to keep your calm around your parents, and don't let little things get to you. For your friends, those who talk about you aren't worth your friendship. Try hanging out with a new group of people. If you have friends from church, pick one and confide in them, because getting it all out helps a lot. I hope I helped !
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This issue requires so background info: Long story short is that my best friend and ex bf (well call bob) broke up with my best friend (well call chica) to go out with me. She was hurt at first but now we are ok. One of my other close friends, well call Joe, goes out with a freshman. That is not the issue. The issue is that he is doing the same exact thing that Bob did with chica. He is dating freshman because she is safe. She is in 'love' with him and thinks they will marry. He knows it won't last and just lets her believe whatever she wants. he doesn't understand that the longer he waits to break up with her the more it is going to hurt her. On to of all that his best friend, well call ashley, likes him and he likes her. When I try to explain to him what he is doing he starts to ignore me and is like I really don't care. Joe and I are like brothers and I just want him to at least realize that he is going to hurt freshman more if he waits. And he is loosing Ashley as a best friend and even maybe a girlfriend the longer he waits to break up with freshman. I just want to know if what i am doing is right and how i should approach him. (link)
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I think what you're doing is the best thing you can do in a situation like this. Joe shouldn't be fooling around with the freshman if he doesn't really like her, because someone could, and probably will get hurt. I'd say to take it cautiously and to gradually bring up a conversation with Joe about his feelings vs the freshman's feelings. Hope I helped!
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