hey lyss , im having some trouble.. theres this guy and he's always like all over me and i like him .. but then when hes with all other girls hes always all oveer then and its annoying .. and theres this other guy who i like and hes used to like me a while back .. then we got into this huge fight and he went out with another girl .. and hes claims he still likes her even tho they broke up .. and i dont kno what to do bc i liek him
this guy doesn't really seem to have his mind set on anyone, he just goes around w/ someone who will give him what he wants. depending if this is true.. if it is then your not worth his time i not you may have a chance. if hes all over you then thats a hint that he does like you whether he denys it or not. he may not like you as much as other girls but still has somewhat of a "thing" for you.. i don't really know what to tell you except wait.. time will tell if hes the one for you.. good luck,
love lyss
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heyy lyss uMmMm... i have a friend that lke the guy i lke n its not kewl at all hes always on her when im around n its gettin annoyin i want to lke gey back at her so bac but i dont kno how n this guy flirts with every girl he meets n its annoyin when he does it in mi face what should i do
first of all hes not worth your time if hes flirting with other girls. Tell this girl that you like this guy, and if she likes him just as much one of you will back off. Which one of you does he like better. Thinnk about that! If he doesn't like you get over it and let your friend have her fun, same way around ..good luck hope everything works out!
Love,
Lyss
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AHH!! what do i do ? i just found out my boyfriend was a transexual ! should i stay with him or shouldnt i ? this is a really hard decision ?
wow, thats some interesting news.. id not stay w/ him, you deserve better, and a guy should love you for you not the underwear you have.. lol its your choicei can't make you do anything but just think about this stuff.. good luck
love,
lyss
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heyy lyss there is this guy at mi skool n we went out fro lke 1 month n when we broke up hes bin freakinout on me ever since. we went to this field trip n he was all ova me wat should i do??
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hey unknown,
this guy sounds like he doesn't really like you to be honest. It sounds like he's only looking for you to do "stuff" with him. I wouldn't waste your time on him. He's not worth it and you'll end of getting hurt. He has not right to freak out at you, and then to be all over you?? wow thats just ignorant.. don't waste your time on him and things will be fine. Other problems occur? Come on back .. Good Luck
Love,
Lyss
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i have no money to buy christmas presents for my family and freinds , give me sum ideas on how to get money
well if your my age 13 iish.. baby sitting, mowing lawns, cleaning around your house, and stuff like that is always good to earn money. if your older theres plenty of things available.. just apply to the ones you like and if they accept soon enough you'll have a pay check. Also remember christmas isn't about the .. Good Luck
Love,
Lyss
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Well Hey Alyssa..I have a crissis...Im 14 and i think i might be pregnant becaseu i took one of those test thingys and it came out to be that im pregnant what should i do??love Kate
well those tests usually come out to be correct, so you probably are pregnent. i'm guessing your parents have no clue about this? first of all tell your parents right away, even though you'll probably get in trouble thats the best thing to do. do you want a baby at this age? if not there are things called aborations that you could get,other then that i don't know. Just if you tell your parents be completely honest, cause if not it'll probably back fire. They'd notice somethings up when your sympotoms occur. Good Luck
Love
Lyss
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Hey i like this kid name chris and he goes to my school...but he dosent like me and he talks shit on me too my friend and stuff and i dont know what i should do...please help
thats not nice for him to talk behind peoples back.. which i hate that lol.. but to me it seems that he is trying to hide that he may like you.. certain guys do different things to show their emoition to girls. Once i liked this guy and he acted like a jerk but it eventually was that he liked me. Just calm down and don't worry about it, you could ask him to stop, or ignore him.. either would probably work. But its your descion .. good luck, if u need more help come on back!
love
lyss
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okay well there is this girl in my school and she hates me for no reason at all .. and she always talks crap about me behind my back and its beginning to bug me what do i do ?
wow.. this sounds exactly to the situation i just got out of lol.. well if i were you i would confront her! a lot of people say stuff behind peoples back because they're cowards and can't say it straight to their faces! this girl shouldn't be even opening her mouth about you if she has anything to say about you she should tell you not other people.. of course she'll deny it so get people who were witnesses and she'll be busted. i hate when people talk behind my back and im sure you do too.. hope she confesses.. good luck ,
love,
lyss
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omg my boy friend is advoiding me what should i do!!! LOVE SOEM ONE IN NEED
hi again someone in need,
well i have no clue why he would avoid you.. if he really cared about you he'd want to talk about it. Try and give him a few days alone to think about this.. i wouldn't call or anything just give him "his" time.. see.. calling him is still about "you" he probably thinks your going to make him talk to you.. he needs time, who knows.. maybe he'll call you back? Hope things work out..
Love,
Lyss
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well u gave really good advice last time...so0o i came back...i told my boy friend how i was feeling about the phone call thing and he said he was sorry ..and that he has a lot going on with skool...and hes been upset lately and i asked if it was with me and he said yes he said im never about him and its always about me...what should i do i dont know how to fix this problem...love some one in need!!
welcome back someone in need,
maybe you should try and ask him to tell you when you start only talking about "you" so you know when enough is enough. Maybe you should try stopping yourself when you get carried away. When you're with your boyfriend everything can't be about you, you have to be equal. Try talking about him for once. See what happens, if thats the only problem and you solve it things should be good. Good Luck..
Love,
Alyssa
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Thers this girl and shes my best friend .. but i dont think to her im her best friend .. when we were little we were inseperable now we dont even hang out anymore .. and i wish we could be atleast friends again? what do i do to make our friendsship last?
hi bestfriends,
i've been through this situation many times. If your "best friend" isn't noticing this herself maybe you should let her know. Often people tend to meet new people and forget about those who've stood by. If you tell your friend you're worried about your relationship, maybe she'll realize and hang out with you again. If that doesn't work let me know, Good Luck.
Love,
Alyssa
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Hey I am sixteen and I know that I have an advice colum but I really need help? Ok look ever since I was ten my mom was realy mean to my dad they whould argue and he left then she treated me so badly that my aunt and uncle had to move in with us. They thought she was better but she still whould not do anything with or for me she whouldn't even come to my party or take me to get school stuff my sisters diod it. And ok this same exact thing happend about 8 or 9 times since then and she still won't do anything but the only time my dad tells her that something is wrong with her is when she gets paranoid and thinks he is cheating What do I do do I get out of this stupid sicle let my dad be missrable or do I yell untill he listens wicth will not work but will u please help me please
hey , wow thats a serious problem. If I were you I'd tell my father about what happened, since he seems to be the more controllable one. Let him know that things aren't safe with your mother. He could get full custody of you if he wanted. With that you'd be living with your father. Depends on what you two decided. I can't really tell you how to handle this but just be careful while you're handling it. Good Luck,
Love,
Alyssa
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y do guys just want you for sex??
i've asked someone this question my self before.. they answered me by " it is not that they want you for sex, thats what they think is cool. if you met half the jocks you know now that you think just want you for sex would be totally oppisite if critics werent judging whats right." now this is from me.. you are not a guys lap dog, if a guy is pushing you to do something you don't want to, tell them that you feel ucnomftorable, if they were a good guy they'd wait until your ready.. all i can tell you is that guys aren't really the way they seem. if you haven't noticed they change when they're with their buddies or just you. Good Luck, Come back if things don't work out.
Love,
Alyssa
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Hey Alyssa...How are you...well i have a little problem...When me and my boyfriend talk on the phone when we hang up he always says i love you...well for the past 2 weeks he hasent been saying it or even saying bye he just hangs up after i say bye...Please Alyssa help me!!!!
love some one in need
well i am fine.. there seems to be some sorta of thing going on with your boyfriend. Maybe he's having second thoughts about you? I am not totally certain but it something that you should let him know you are noticing. If he doesn't open up to you and these problems continue you should make him tell you whether he likes it or not. He may not be doing this because of you, it could be because of family problems etc.. i wish you good luck and if things don't work out come on back.
Love,
Alyssa
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