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um i'm melanie.
i have quite alot of experience
with alot of different stuff

but not everything..

and sometimes i need help too..


advice

my friend is madly in love with his girlfriend. they both love each other and were planning on getting married when they grew up. they were gonna go to college together, get married, and have a family. however, she went to a party without him and got very drunk. some guy took advantage of her and they hooked up. she apologized to him (my friend), and told him how much she regretted it, and how she would never do it again. should he break up with her?

He should not break up with her. If he trusts her enough, then he should believe how much she regrets it... and he shouldn't shove it in her face later... people make mistakes.

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One of my best boy mates (lets call him adam) was going out with this girl (lets call her Tia). I had known Tia for a long time before Adam met her, but she asked him out, and they were inseperable.
What I hadn't told Adam was that Tia seems to use boys a bit, as soon as someone else comes along, she dumps her current boyfriend. I couldn't just go and tell him, they were so happy together and I didn't want to spoil anything.
Recently, Tia met this other guy (lets call him sean), and dumped Adam straight away. I can't believe it, cos Adam is so sweet and kind, i suppose he can easily get walked over though.
He treated her better than any other guy did.
Its just, he's so devestated, and I want to know how to make him cheer up. So, anyone got any ideas?

aww poor guy. i agree, you sound like a great friend to him. you should try to get his mind off this girl.. hang out with him .. go bowling or to the mall.. anything that'll be fun for him. and maybe you should tlak to him about it.. it's always good to tell him that it's okay and he deserve someone better for him. good luck

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Okay my name is Saylor, and I had a boyfriend Nathan, this girl named Whitley liked him recently before we started dating. Well we dated for about 2 1/2 months, then I get a phonecall while he is in Tennessee from his mothers cell phone. I called it back and he answered the phone, this is our conversation.
N-Hey what are you doing?
s- Nothing sittin here playing with this dog (be got me a puppy.
N-Me n Dustin are fixing to go walk around the streets.
(dustin from in the background says "and get some pussy)
well nathan told him to shut up and for me to look over him
N- Hey we need to talk
s-okay
N- I think we need to depart for a little while
S- Thats okay with me
N- you can still call me and maybe later we can have a relationship but right now i dont want to be tied down
S- thinking to myself (ur in tennessee how the hell am i tying you down?)
S- Are you sure you still want me to call you
N- yeh i want you to and im still gonna call you and we can still hang out at school and stuff
S- okay
N- it dont bother you does it?
S- Nah im cool with it
N-so im gonna get off here i will talk to you later
S-okay
n- c ya
s- bye


okay that was our conversation and i was wondering what i can do because i really love him and im soo confused but i think he was just doing that because dustin is there i need so much help right now it isnt funny. Can you please tell me what i can do to get him back?

alright. seeing as you love this boy, it will be hard. but if you think he's doing this so he can get with another girl .. then he is definitley not worth it. it IS his right to do that... but if he really cares for you or loves you.. he wouldn't do that. so my advice would to be forget him. you deserve better. BUT if you really want him back.. i can't guarentee anything.. but no pretend you're okay with this if you really aren't. tell him how you feel. if he cares for you like you care for him. then hopefully he's come through.. good luck.. and sorry if things don't work out..

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Hi! im a girl and i'm 17 ..well my sitiation its that my bf and i had a big fight and we broke up.. I LOVE HIM ..but he seems he he doesnt care.. y talked to him and he said we are just friends.. sohuld I quit talking to Him?..and i also dont want go out becauase im sad..i quit eating asnd all that stuff... what can i doo!?

i have been in basically the same situation. don't quit talking to him, but don't over talk to him.. you don't want to make it seem like you need him to support yourself. i know getting over love is REALLY hard. but don't cut out all of your fun over a guy. i would say, the best thing to do is go out with your friends. be with the people who will cheer you up and make you have a good time. try not to think about him.. cause if he seems like he doesn't care or doesn't want to be with you in that way, then it's not worth it.. you deserve some who TRUELY loves you.. goodluck :]

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how do you know when a girl cums? like is it similar to when guys cum? i'm not trying to be pornographic or anything, but i really wanna know, thanks :-]

it's kinda of similar yet different.

when a girl cums, there's usually discharge that comes out of her vagina. but not every girl has that. for alot of girls, they start breathing like they are trying to catch their breathe or they'll have a big sigh of relief.

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Hello people!
Here it is, I like this guy named Max. He seems to like me too, he went to see my play, he went to school for me and we went to play pool. Sounds like your typical puppylove right? Wrong! Now he is neglecting me. He dissed me last monday to meet "his friend". Yeah I don't believe him...And now from being really sweet to like not talking to me anymore...
I haven't done anything to make him loose intrest..has he lost all fellings, is there no hope left? Help!

Thank you ♥

go up to him and just ask him about it. if he keeps ignoring you then let it go cause he's not worth it. and if you can't trust him and he's lying to you then you deserve better.

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