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Q:

im in 8th grade, and last year i met this girl named ashley, and we were so close, we did everything together. this year we dont have anything except art together, and shes made a bunch of new friends this year.it seems like she thinks i'm anoying, but when i asked her she said she doesnt. we also share a locker, and she told this girl amber that she can share our locker with us. amber didnt like her locker because she didnt have anyone to share with. so now i think ashley's trying to get me to move out of our locker, cauz' amber asked me if i wanted her old locker, and i said no. then today, ashley told amber that she would move "half" of her stuff into amber's old locker so they could share. i still want to be friends with ashley, but shes been acting mean latley. what should i do?

look, first of all, she may just be a bit hormonal all girls this age are. I know what you're going through, I did myself. you need t get back into her mind. Take it slow with her,and LISTEN. she is gonna need someone to talk to. good luck!

Q: how bad does waxing your pubic hair hurt. like if you waxed all of it off? im a girl

Im a boy, and it stings like hell, especcially the private parts. electric razors are much easier and less painfull.

Q: 13/f
my mom won't let me make my own decisions. I realise that if I screw things up, it'll be my fault & I'll have to suffer my own consequences. My mom explained that whole thing to me and I said I was willing to do that, but then at the end she's all like "ah I'm still not letting you. that was hipathetical" and I'm like WTF.

She thinks that I'll get pregnant or have sex or do drugs. and I already told her that i'm not stupid & i won't do that. All I want to do is go over my boyfriends house, and i'm not even allowed to do that. My boyfriend has been over my house every single time. Now my boyfriend is mad at me because I'm never with him, and everytime we're over my house we're being watched over like a hawk.

I know I'm only 13 but i'm not stupid. And everyone else is allowed to be with boys. I'm even interested in having sex, and my mom says that all boys this age are. Even if it's true, he won't be anywhere near me. My mom is ruining every single relationship I have.

i am 13 too and I totally know what you're feeling, and I know that it stinks. You need to tell you're mum exactly what you told me, and then see what she says, tell her that she is ruling youre whole life, tell her that she can't always watc over you, tell her that you need to grow up and make you're own descisions. And you also need to tell you're boyfriend this too. He won't be mad, and if he is, i he woth keeping. Good luck!

Q: Yesterday my boyfriend was going down on me, and when I orgasmed, my hip all of a sudden started to really hurt!

It started to fade over the course of the day, but it still really hurts today, to the point where it hurts to walk.

Any idea what happened/how to fix it?

you're boyfriend may have put too much weigt on it earlier on, and when you climaxed it just started a chain reaction from you're nerve endings, but also don't forget that tension from other parts of the body. book a doctors appointment.

Q: 19 f

ok so i really want to learn the proper techniques for singing but i cant afford lessons. My parents wont pay for them either because were on a tight budget. Does anyone have any tips or sites that can help me out thanks i appreciated!

try http://www.justenough.net/kits/vocals/sk_net.php and sign in with a free membership, they tend to have good stuff there

Q: Hey.

My frieds have always said to me that i am great at giving advice, and i agree, i think i am pritty good. So for the past 4months i have been searching the for a website where i can have my own advice column. I fond Advicenators and DearCupid. They are both great, but i just want a site where people will only ask me for advice. I have a freewebs thing and didnt work out as i had hoped because no one had emailed me with any of their problems and no one looked at my site.
I have answered lots and lots and lots of questions on advinators but still no one as a question (like, just for me to answer). I would quite like myself to be a columnist and have my own website where people can just ask me for advice and it to be an advice column.

Please help.
Any advice will do.

Thanks :)

there are some sites, such as freewebs and such alike, where you can pay money to "go premium" where you get you're own site name. This costs money, but then you could get sponsors onto your site and pay all that money off and possibly make a profit! everybody wins. Then, to get you're column going, you could just advertise it in the localpaper.

Q: is it bad to eat a powerbar, but then you don't exercise afterwards? i usually exercise but if i were to eat one for lunch, then i just went out and ran errands, is that unhealthy?

things like this are like double cheeseburgers, bad for you if you eat and eat all the time without excersising it off, bt once in a while it is ok. I would suggest that yu don't ALWAYS eat powerbars though, sometimes have a piece of fruit or a sandwichinstead.

Q: Hi i am 18 and a female.i have a problem. i use to work at chucky cheese six months ago and i've been noticing this guy that works there and i imediately had feelings for him like overnight. anyways, im a very picky person when it comes to guys and this person (we can call him joe), fits all of my standards. he is a vegetarian which i think is very attractive, he likes the type of music that i like and that is rare, and we have the same outlook on life, and love, it's scary. but i have one problem. He is white and im black and we come from two different worlds. it;s hard having this racial tension because im attracted to white guys for some reason. im afraid to tell him how i feel because i fear of being rejected and humiliated. and i don't know if he is attracted to black girls or not i don't know im scared to ask. so my question is, how do i tell someone from a different race how i feel about them?

if "joe" really liks you as much as you like him, things like this shouldn't be a problem. Just ask him to dinner ad see what happens, what is the worst that could possibly happen except that he says no? Besides, finding out about you're partner is vey interesting and can keep arkward silences away.