Member Since: September 19, 2013
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Last Update: September 19, 2013
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. lately I've been feeling like he's holding me back.
I've always wanted to travel and do things with my life. I never wanted to be the settle down get married and have kids type. Right now I work 50 hours a week, I'm barely scraping by. I'm 21 and I haven't done anything with my life at all.
My boyfriend has just graduated college. He lives with me and doesn't have a job, and I'm supporting him, paying all the rent and bills and food and all that. So I can't afford to go out with friends and stuff. Which, for him is totally ok, becuase he's the type that likes to stay in and watch movies.
I just feel that if I stay with him, I'm stuck with this boring life forever. But I do love him for his humor, his personality, his intelligence, the sex is great, and many other things. He is a really great guy. I'm afraid that I've been with him for so long that I've gotten comfortable and wouldn't know how to be with anyone else.
I'm just so lost right now and I don't think this little explanation does it justice. I don't know what to do. Any and ALL feedback would be great.
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I'm going to be honest with you. Yes, you may seem like you 'love' him, but think about it. You're 21, live life! If you are working so hard, don't you ever think that you deserve a break? Or, if you can escape and feel like you don't have to worry about anything? And if your boyfriend doesn't try to find a job to at least help out, if it were me, I would dump him.
I know you may say no, heck there is a high chance of it, but do what makes YOU happy. Judging by now, you wrote this question in seek of advice; if you were not happy you would not have written this question... but you did...
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