Member Since: March 24, 2020
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Last Update: March 24, 2020
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I am a 24 year old female. I feel stuck in life, my boyfriend has a house with his mother, and one day when we sell the house (5 year plan) his mother will probably have to live with us. He bought a truck in January without my knowledge or discussion and that hurt my feelings and I was outraged. I know the love and affection doesn’t live on forever but lately it’s almost non existent. Sure, he’ll love on me when he wants to be intimate but then far and few in between. Lately, I’ve been angry, upset, and resentful (introvertly), and towards him I’ve just been like Eeyore. Several small things have added up to make me just constantly annoyed with him. And in truth, it all started when the truck came home, and weeks later his best friends girlfriend drove the truck and I saw red, I was infuriated with him, because we went to get dog food once and I went to open the door for him to put the food in the truck and he snarled at me that I wasn’t driving the truck, when all I was doing was opening the door for him rock drop the food. I have so much anger towards him, and I’m not sure if his affection is gone because of my mood swings, or if my mood swings are because he isn’t affectionate and I feel like he enjoys everyone except for me. I feel like my light went out, and I am filled with horrible feelings, I just want my bubbly self to be back, but I’m buried underneath hurt, anger, and annoyance, and also this feeling of being stuck in life. (link)
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I feel like you should speak up on how you feel because your feelings matter and if he does not understand then that's completely wrong. You deserve to be heard, us females always tend to bash our emotions to please a significant other but it should not be that way, if you do not feel happy with his mom you let it e known! You should never e forced to do something you are not happy with, remember your feelings come first. Think about this big step and all the affects it will have. Think everything through and maybe you are loosing feelings and that's okay, it happens and in this scenario maybe it is what is best. Never break your own heart trying to fix someone elses, YOU COME FIRST, your happiness comes first, do what your heart desires.
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I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about my future. (link)
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Do not blame someone elses poor actions on yourself. I know its easy to try and justify another persons actions because you love them so much, but I promise you, you are not the problem. Think about it, you dodged a bullet from being with someone who does not genuinely appreciate you and he lost a wonderful person with a caring heart who really felt for him, its his loss girl, you got this. Never compare your life to others, everyone's success comes in different times. Im not sure if you are religious but god always has the perfect timing, I promise. Learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company, self love is the best type of love.
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