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I like this guy but he has a gf. My friends say that if i asked him out he would say yes and some say he would say no cause like he has the gf. My one friend says that he would say yes definately when they break up...but like it doesnt seem like they're breaking up anytime soon this time theyve been together. But like he flirts with me and stuff when shes not around but then when she is shes all over him so like he cant really flirt sometimes. But like my friends say he likes me. Do you think i should ask him out?? (( if more info needed just say.. thanx ))
why wouldn't you. and if you have read any of my answers you would know my answer. just do it.
theres this girl, she says shes my friend but i no all she wants is for me to be unhappy. Everything she does is to my disadvantage. And she laughs. Not little oopses, but serious stuff that ruins my rep. I cant get her out of my head, she so mean. I dont know why shes doing this, but now shes getting other people on her side. She tells me lies about other people saying stuff about me that they really didnt, just to upset me. Now im so depressed, i know its not right to have that stuff go to your head... but i cry at home thinking bout how mean they are to me because i cant help but feel hurt. What can i do that wont make them just hate me more?
if i know you can we actually talk about this other then on here? it would be easier. usually when people try to ruin your life, i think its because jealousy. try to... get your own side in this. dont stay on defence.
andrew, am i fat? Im 100 pounds and im 5 foot
no. not at all. you only weight that much because your freaking tall.
Hey,
Iv got a boyfriend in my high school, who i love. But iv had this friend for a while, a pretty good friend, attractive and nice, cool and intrested to listen, he's a whole lot better than my boyfriend, and i like him more than a friend. But i have had my boyfriend for a very long time, and i dont know if i would dump him for this new guy. This guy has liked me for a very long time also, but he doesnt know I know. Some of his friends told me, and thats when i knew i liked him back. I dont know what to do, how can you help?
well if you like him better why wouldn't you go out with him? if your boyfriend at the time isn't good enough, just because its been a while doesn't mean it would be.. wierd? its a better chance too. i think you should go out with the new guy. but stay close with your boyfriend now.. in case you guys ever get together again.
When you're talking to a gurl what do you enjoy talking about?? Well im asking because i like this guy who has a gurlfriend but like i dont know what to talk to him about all the tie..i dont want to talk like wierd or anything...but wut would u talk about if you were me?? Well...what do you like when they talk to you about??
it really depends.. like if something happens in school, tell him about it. or if someone says something, ask what he thinks. ask him what he did that day. stuff like that.. it really depends what your situation is.
ok well i like this guy but he has a gurlfriend and he always says he loves her and stuff..but like they dont really talk and stuff but like i talk to him a lot and i get the vibe that he likes me but if he did then he would break up with his gurlfriend. I talk to the guy's friend and the friend and everyone else is saying i should ask him out. But my one friend says that he might say no cuz he likes his gurlfriend alot but like other ppl are saying i should just try it and see what he says..but he mite like act wierd if i do ask him out. Do you think i should ask him out or wait until him and his gurlfriend break up??
well just because he says he loves his girlfriend and is going out with her, doesn't mean he doesn't like you a little. maybe more then a little. but hes only with her because he already is and cant decide who to pick. i'd say to belive his friends that say to ask him out. i think you should too. dont wait because you might miss your chance. just do it.
...is that i dont kno if he really notices me..like he says hi and stuff..but how do i get him to like notice me and get him to konw me when his gurlfriend is always all up on him and doesnt really talk to me like about things other than hi and stuff..but he does talk whenever his gurlfriend and like no one else is there. But hoe do i get him to talk more and get to know me??
call him. and dont listen to what anyone says. just because they tell you it could be a lie and then ounce you get your hopes they will find out the truth and your hopes withh be crushed. you'll feel like shit so dont. you need to talk to him somewhere.....
----->>>>that was me..but like whenever i do call him he like sounds all pissed cuz hes usually on the other line with his gurlfriend. But like he just like asks me wut! when he answers and like it sounds bad..but like hes soo nice and stuff and really cute..but i just dont kno y he wont talk to me..like if i ask him he will just be like cuz i dont want to . But what should i do to get him to talk to me...other than the phone..cuz that doesnt work too well??
im.. not very sure. he sounds kind of assy though. so dont worry about him too much.
Well i think i might still like this guy but like im pretty sure i do..but im not the best of sure. Well everyone thinks he likes me..but he has a gurlfriend and his best friend said that he never taks about me and talks about his gurlfriend and is in love. But the thing is ...is that i dont kno if he really notices me..like he says hi and stuff..but how do i get him to like notice me and get him to konw me when his gurlfriend is always all up on him and doesnt really talk to me like about things other than hi and stuff..but he does talk whenever his gurlfriend and like no one else is there. But hoe do i get him to talk more and get to know me??
call him. and dont listen to what anyone says. just because they tell you it could be a lie and then ounce you get your hopes they will find out the truth and your hopes withh be crushed. you'll feel like shit so dont. you need to talk to him somewhere.
so andrewnator.
its kelly.
you know.
will you go out with me?
i actually know two. which one are you? kelly D. or kelly E.
Please answer my question with sympathy and care, i need it despritley.
Andrew, I love my family, but If it doesnt sound too harsh, deep inside i know they dont love me. I dont want you saying i bet they do, thatll only make me cry harder for knowing its not true. I try to tell myself people have worste situations, but i cant stand to bare it.I give new meaning to the phrase " You see the girl in the hallway smiling and laughing, and would never even know she cried herself to sleep last night". I do everything for my house, because my mother works until after dinner, once she comes home, instead of getting closer to me and catching up, she watches me cry. I try not to talk bout my family, instead i complain bout anything but. I dont think that anybody would understand. My mother makes me cry at least once every night. But i laugh a lot and tell jokes a lot, so that my friends dont know that when im at their home i just dont want to leave. I dont want to hear you say everything will be wonderful someday, because maybe you can say something that will make me smile through these tear filt eyes. I dont know bout you, but its not fine to cry. When my mother upsets me, i stand it until she leaves, then break down. I dont know what to do. From what i wear, to what i look like, to what i say, shell find anything to insult me, anything to put me down. She loves to make my small heart break. My parents are divorced, and all the time i dream of being born into a perfect family. I know everything happens for a reason, but I just... wish this could change. Im so close to running away and never coming back.How can you help me?
you obviously know me. you know crying is good. so you cant say it isn't. it gets everything out and once your done you feel better. its a fact. chill out and just.. cry one day. get it all out. your mother doesn't say those things on purpose. when some people are depressed they just dont care. so she probabley isn't thinking about what shes doing to you. im not going to say things will be wonderful because that doesn't seem to be what your looking for. i will say they wont be like this forever. everything changes, nothings the same. not nessacarly will everything be great, but better. sorry, if i could help you. i can only try to help.
Andrew,
Iv got a lot of things going on in my life. I have a bunch of my friends who think of me as an ass to people, i dont know how to change. But my real problem, is whenever im phased with a negative issue, i refuse to eat. Its not tht i loose hunger, its that i dont want to. I feel as if not eating is how to get my confusion and anger out. Now, i hear wieghts of other kids, and im so much more than them, though people know im super skinny. that gives me even more of a reason to starve myself. Now i dont eat, and get out as much as possible. But my mother thinks im anerexic. How can i change my ways?
well think about what your doing. and realize that what other people think really doesn't matter. i mean if someone called me fat i'd make them lick the floor, but i wouldn't starve myself. think about it and stop.
how do i get a boyfirneddd
depends
i have been "best friends" with these guys since kindergarten. we do a lot of stuf together. they always blow me off. example: we were gonna go to the movies on friday and he said he would call me so i was excited. then when he didnt call me i thought he couldnt go. when i knocked on his door, his lil bro said he got picked up by my other best friends. do guys alway ditch their firends that r girls? or is it just me?
not really. maybe hes just not so intrested in doing everything with girls. i like it myself, but i want to be with other guys too. it is rude he blows you off but be clam about it. tell him that you dont like it and you understand that he doesn't always want to be with you and if you want to do something that he doesn't then he can just tell you the truth instead of blowing you off without warning. he.. they should understand. unless they became a bunch of jerks then im sorry.
hi well my mom has been using some drug for maybe a couple years, but i dont know what it is but i know for a fact she is. she'll stay in the bathroom for a long time and doesnt stop sniffing after or whatever and acts really weird, doesnt go to bed that night and like picks at her hair and shit and freaks out when i walk in and i love my mom and i hate the rest of my family, my sister is the biggest bitch and she is so mean to my mom and everyone.. whats my mom using? i cant help but being sad and today i was out with her and my sister called and said tell mom shes a disgrace and i want her to go back to the lake ( our house in nh where my mom goes when my sister or dads mean) and she hungup so i called back and said she was real tough and to tell her herself, so she told my mom on the phone and she was so sad.. and my mom dropped me off and started crying and said shed be back in a little... shes not home and now my dad asked wut happened and i didnt really hear but my sister said something about my mom and stuff was everywhere in the bathroom near the sink.. thanks=/
well i dont know exactly what shes using, but she seems sad about how your family treats her. maybe you guys should all have some kind of sit down and talk about your problems. i think she feels used and walked over. you should really do something before it gets serious. and if you knew this was going on why didn't you do something? for all you know today could be her last. she needs help and now.
I'm the person with where i like the guy and he has a gf and i should just ask like he doesnt have one. yea well like when you say take a risk and stuff..like if i flirt with him what if he doesnt flirt back and like to flirt with him what should i do..what do you guys like??
well maybe he cant tell your flirting. take a risk as in just do it. tell him, talk to him about going out. just do it!
just cause she might like him doesn't mean he likes her back.....------>>>
that was me and well the guy didnt like me and i didnt ask him out but like he likes this slut and they're going out now but like what do i do to get him back ...he is making a bad mistake with this girl she's going to cheat on him and like he always goes for the sluts and like how do i get him back ??
im sorry about that. well tell him what you think will happen. and have your friends talk to him too. because no one likes a slut. other wise.. you could wait. if shes such a slut she will probabley dump him soon. you have to tell him about what hes getting into. make him notice you....
-------->> ok well me again..heres the thing, if i get in the way of them like the only part is is that the slut is my neighbor so like i would have to deal with the rumors at home and skool..but like everyone thinks he likes me but likes her and like he would come up to me and stuff at ice skating on friday a few times just to talk and like it was nice and everyone thot he liked me but then he asked the slut out. But to get in their way in like a non-slutty way.. what do i do??
well.. your going to have to take a risk. i mean what else is there to do? i still think you should tell him and act like he has no gf. but dont be a bitch about it.basicly.. you dont really need me to tell you what to do. all i know that you deffinatly have to do is TAKE A RISK. and you better do it. other wise none of this will work. and its true
There's this guy and like we kind of flirt and today in the only class i have with him, other than lunch, he told me that this one guy likes me and i was like eww and hes like who do you like and i just say um i dont know and smiled and my friend told me to do that. But the only thing is is that whenever i see him hes with his ex that he just dumped cuz she was getting annoying and he says he doesnt like her and stuff but like she is always all up on him. What do you think i should do? Should i ask him out or just lay off of him?
Well i think he likes you. and say deffinatly give it a try. dont worry about the other girl, just cause she might like him doesn't mean he likes her back.....------>>>
that was me and well the guy didnt like me and i didnt ask him out but like he likes this slut and they're going out now but like what do i do to get him back ...he is making a bad mistake with this girl she's going to cheat on him and like he always goes for the sluts and like how do i get him back ??
im sorry about that. well tell him what you think will happen. and have your friends talk to him too. because no one likes a slut. other wise.. you could wait. if shes such a slut she will probabley dump him soon. you have to tell him about what hes getting into. make him notice you. be closer to him and get in the way of his sluty girlfriend. he might realize what your trying to tell him eventually. and you HAVE to tell him you like him!
I was at my softball game, and i saw this guy, i think i might know. And, my bff is close friends with him, and when i see him in the hall, and we smile at each other. I dont know his name, and im not sure who he is, but i want to get to know him..what should i do, to get 2 know him, without making him figure out i like him?
- Lost
Well instead of only smiling say hi or something. maybe aproach him and ask his name. it wouldn't be that hard if you tried. and keep doing it.. except only ask his name once unless you forget it. if you have AIM you could ask for his screen name. talk on there and get to know eachother. i think he might figure something if you call him.. and if you dont have AIM.. i guess try to talk to him in the hall as much as you can. walk together maybe if you are heading the same direction. trying to get to know someone isn't as hard as it may seem. just talk, ask, and listen. good luck
i have asked this to all girls, so i htought i would ask a guy .. but its long and kinda personal so i would rather email it to you .. can i email you instead of asking on here? whats your email?
my email is american_psycho65@hotmail.com
ok well i really like this guy....but he is going out with someone. Me and this guy have gone out before and i regret breaking up with him a lot. i really like this other guy to but i don't think he likes me. I don't know if i should ask one of them out or just be friends with them for now......In Love And Confused
i know your asking for advice so i will try to help, but i think its basicly your decision. you seem to like both. i think you should ask one of them out.. but it might come with trouble if you ask the one thats taken.. so if you were too you would most likely have to wait or you will get a bad title. try the single first. if it doesn't work.. wait a while. maybe even try again if the other is still taken to make sure he hasn't changed his mind. if its again a no of sorts wait for the taken guy, or even secretly talk to him and ask... and if he says yes you could plan something one. a fake break up between him and the other girl without anyone knowing he dumped her for you. and if im confusing you, sorry my heads kinda hurting a little too. but... you have to try. single first. two times. taken one either secretly, broad giving a bad title which i recamend you dont do, or just wait for him. good luck, hope i helped.