Im Claire, I play Electric and Acustic guitar, I like to act, draw, sing, and lots of other junk. I enjoy people taking my advice and hopefully you'll ask me something difficult.
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Claire,
There is this guy that really likes me, but I totally hate him. Everyone makes fun of me because of him and I am sick of it. I want him to leave me alone but I don't know how. What should I do?
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Well if you hate him, just leave some space between the 2 of you. He may really like you, so dont be mean or anything or it may backfire. Just try to avoid him as much as possible.
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hey claire, all of the wrong guys are asking me out. i kno they are nice and sweet but i dont really want a boyfriend anyway. am i being mean b/c this one guy keeps on giving me dirty/mean looks. i explain to tehm why i turned them down. how do u start a convo w/ the guy that u turned down? (link)
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Well 1st of all u arent being mean at all. You cant force attratcion and you gatta remember that. Guys just get dissapointed is all, and you should take that as a compliment that your so special. Dont take the mean looks, he's dissapointed like the rest of them. You can start a convo with him just the way you used to, show him that its not that you hate him, its just that you only want to be friends.
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claire i'm really confused there this girl i like who kinda likes me but i think shes with somebody else but nobody knos and we dont talk anymore cuz of her friends hate me what should i do? p.s you give great advice.
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Well first thing is you should gte into contact with her, friends cant stop everything. See if she really likes you or not, and if she does you can make your move. If she blows you off, or the friend gets in the way, back off. And if you really get to know her more, you may wanna ask her out (:
~Claire
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i have a problem. I know your not very good at giving nice advice, its always so negative or rude but anyway. this guy i use to date, i think i still may like him, like if he asked me out again id say probaly yes. but im dating this other guy. i kinda like him. its weird. whats there to do? hit me up (link)
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Sorry, I dont give advice to people who choose to insult me on my own advice columb. You can deal with the problem yourself
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I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice. (link)
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Honestly, this is the one thing friends cannot erase. But the least you can do is confort her in her time of need. Its a rough age to have this happen, and theres nothing you can change about what happened, but stick by her side and she'll be grateful
~Claire
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1. ok there is a nice guy in some of my classes and he likes me and he has aske dme out b4 and i've said no. he WILL NOT LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! he is nice but now he's pushing the limit! i dont wanna b mean cause im not that kind of person. HOW DO I MAKE HIM GO AWAY!! 2. i sit next to this other guy im homeroom and he is REALLY WEIRD!!!!! and he wont go away! i wont mind being straight forward w/ him........ (link)
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Okay, iv had this problem before. Guys are dipshits to girls, i know it, you know it, all girls basically know it. So, first, tell the guy whos asking you out that you'll never dating him, you think he's cool, but you like someone else ( i no you dont but wtf cares, itll make him jealous and depressed and get that you could care less bout him, and that fixes that problem). For the guy who sits next to you in homeroom, just ask the teacher if you could please move away from him because he's desterbing your schoolwork , and the teacher will most likely fall for it and move you. If that doesnt work, just try to stay away from your seat as much as possible and move your chair across the whole table, its wut i do when i h8 my partener. If all else fails, just scream the hell at him until normality finally comes into view.
~Claire
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my ex i still like a lot and she still likes me she smiles at me talks about me and says hi to me all the time. But the thing is her friends hate me and control her and my old best friends. wut do i do (link)
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I think if this girl is really worth it, then she wouldnt care bout her friends and would take you either way. if not shes just a bitch. You may like her, but friends do make a big effect on friedship, but if this girl likes you enough, she'll take you back just as you are.
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well everynow and then my "friends" are really nice but sometimes i feel like im bugging them for some reason, i dont think i did anything wrong but i cant explain it to them cause theyre too busy with their other friends...what do i do??? (link)
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I think that you have just been coming into the conversation at a wrong period of time. Maybe somethings going on between them you dont know about, and they need you to stay out. Dont feel left out, just give them a break fro a while and see what happens. If thats not the case, please ask them whats up and see if youve missed something in the past, done something wrong, or if they can help and feel offended. Friends ALWAYS have problems with eachother, but its only for a while and never lasts if its a strong enough friendship. Dont loose hope
~Claire
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I haven't talked to my girlfreind in like FOREVER. I want to break up with her but i just don't know what to do. I Like another girl. But i dont know what to do right now. I'm Really confused and I don't know what 2 do (link)
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Okay, girls i have to admit are very sensitive, but the longer you wait, the more it will hurt. She'll get over it and if you do it nicely enough you'll still be friends. Just choose your words very carefully, and try to be a gentlemen about it. Also, you may wanna wait till you get together with the other girl, or itll hurt her confidence a lot.
~Claire
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I hate school, don't you? Like it's so pointless and you don't learn anything when your sleeping. And when your not sleeping, you usulally playing games on your phone. There's no point to it. (link)
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HECK YES! Except Math, or if u wanna win some sorta game show in the future, but other than that, no point wutsoever
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claire
well everytime i talk to my friends or something, it kind of seems like they dont want to talk to me. i dont think ive done anythig to make them mad at me but it just seems like they don't want to talk to me. then if i say something sometimes they ignore me. i just dont feel like dealing with that anymore. do you think they hate me? or dont want to be around me?
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Well I dont think your friends hate you, or theyd tell you. Think of if your friends have confrunted you before about something you did/didnt do, or something that bothered them about yourself. If you have been acting like a selfish brat, like just assooming you'll get something from them, id see why theyd hate you, if you dress and act differently then they may think your a poser, if youve became friends with other people they may be jealous, friends are wierd. But try bonding with one of them, they'll lead you to the others. Or just ask them sincerally whats going on and try to fix it. If all else fails just find new friends, see if they care. Or my persanal favorite... make their life a living hell muhahahahahha...oops did i say that out loud?
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ok so my birthday was like a month ago..i started planning my sweet 16 but couldnt do it the date i wanted because one of my good friends is having hers that day. I was ok with that and decided to wait until June because my aunt who works there said i can get a deal this one weekend. I checked with everyone to make sure i didnt interfere..my one good friend is having hers the day after mine..im having mine on a friday. Today she asked me if i can change mine because she was talking to her mom and her mom doesnt like the idea because she said it will be hard for people to go to to parties in one weekend. She asked me to change mine because she cant change hers. I was like WHTA? her dad works at the firehouse (thats where shes havin hers) and i know she could probably change it if she feels that way. Every weekend there seems to be a sweet 16..i have to wait 2 1/2 months after my actual bday to have my party..so i think ive sacrificed enough. I dont mean to sound stubborn or anything..its just im sick of accomadating others...plus i can get a good deal on the catering that friday night..and i have double header softball games on saturdays..between everyone elses parties,plays for the schools,and talent shows,this is my open date and i dont wanna change! do you agree? how should i say this to her (link)
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Okay, honestly you cant always obey your friends damands. This is going to be on of the greatest night of your life, and im sure your friend can respect that and work around it. Plan your party and you'll be fine. Good luck with the greedy friend 2!
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claire,
There is this person in school that I really like but there is a little problem.(BIG problem). She kind of has a boyfriend. I don't want to ask her out because she's oviously going to say no. What happens if they don't break up for a long time?
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Well first of all, dont loose hope. If shes happy with the guy shes with, theres nothing you can do but wait. But, there is a couple things you do HAVE TO do. If shes already your friend, flirt with her and talk to her, but lightly so she doesnt think your trying to steel her away from her boyfriend. That way, when the time comes around that they break up, you can come to her, and she'll already be comftorble around you
~Claire
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Hey. Well theres t his guy I really like...i Want him to notive me...but i dont anna make a fool of myself by like droppin my books...and im too shy to go up and say hi....wut do i do? (link)
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In this case if you dont wanna interact with who you like, you'll never have a chance. If you really want him to notice you then you need to say or do something, he's not ganna be the one to come up to you. So, if you want this guy to be yours, take a risk before he gets swept away. Please remember that being yourself will never be considered making a fool of yourself, and I'm sure that once he meets you he'll very much like you. So good luck!
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Ok Claire, lets see if you can help me. Ok theres a guy in school...is is soooo hott and really nice (i think) but i cant get him to notice me at all.. im too shy to go up to him and say hi...but i have no other way Please help (link)
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Hey, I think i can help you there.
First of all, no matter what, if you like him or not, he's just like a girl, no different, he's still human. SO be yourself at all times. Next, theres always the famous drop the book technique, where when he's at his locker you "trip" and drop your books. If he's nice enough (which im hoping he is) he'll help you pick them up. Try to be very polite and make a joke. Then in the hallways he'll remember you, and you can say Hi or smile, or make small chat. If all works out he'll soon learn your name and vis versa. If all else fails try to get his SN, or find out who his friends are and try to make good with them, and you'll soon meet him. But, in the future just remember this guy isnt an alien, and you dont have to be too shy to just say hi or anything. Hopefully i helped,
~Claire
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Claire,
My parents have always fought, and now they are finally getting divorced. I dont know what to do. They want me to choose who to live with, and i dont think i can choose who i like better. Right now im very depressed over the subject. Please help if you can (link)
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Okay, my parents are divorced too, but I was in a different situation as you. See, i was 5, so they chose for me. I now live with my mother. I sudjest that you stay with whichever parent you think will let you visit your other gardian every once in a while. I see my father every other weekend, and thats fine with me, you'll grow to live with it trust me. So, either way it'll be hard, but stick with my advice and itll make it at least alittle bit easier.
~Claire
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