There really is nothing interesting about me. Independent Film Maker does not mean I make porn. I just thought I would clarify that.
Gender: Female
Location: Meadville, PA
Occupation: Independent Film Maker
Age: 17
Member Since: October 24, 2003
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I moved away from to go to college, but most of my friends stayed in our hometown to either take community college courses or just slack off and not do much of anything. Now it seems like every weekend they guilt me about not coming home. I can come home some weekends, yeah, but honestly I'm making some new friends here that I like to party with too and don't really want to go home more than once a month. My high school friends are just like, "But it's so-and-so's annual such-and-such party! You've never missed this! are you too good for us now or something?"
Am I a bad person for neglecting my old friends? Should I make more of an effort to go home and salvage these relationships? I want to stay friends, but sometimes I wish phonecalls were enough. (link)
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You're not a bad person. You've moved on and there is nothing wrong with that. If your high school friends are your real friends, they should understand that you have new friends and your life doesn't revolve around your hometown any more. Don't stop visiting them, but don't feel obliged to see them every weekend.
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