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my boyfriend used to be the one to care more and like me more and everything so he used to tell me to care more and now im the one who is overcaring and telling him i love him..he used to tell me he loves me and now doesnt anymore because he says i take it too seriously..how do i get him to do nice things for me again and show me again that he DOES care..please help me im so hurt. =[ (link)
yeah you're right everything sucks. oh gosh it sucks to have a boyfriend and to have good health and food and a roof over your head.

suck it up


My mom and I were going at it about the Baldwin brothers. And a question arose, "What movie has the most Baldwins in it?"

So, I suppose I'll ask you guys, since you're all so knowledgable and such.

What movie has the most Baldwins? (link)
All 4 of them were in the South Park movie but idk if that really counts


What does it mean when someone says he felt her up.

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it means when someone a guy like feels a girls boobs and goes up her shirt


ahh memories...

lol JK.


female-
So, im a BIG flirt. and everyone tells me I am. and most people that have heard about me think ihave had sex. most people do actually untill i tell them its just a rumor. in fact, i've never gone past making out. i really want to though. but i dont have a boyfriend and dont really want one, and i still want to be a flirt. so like where could i like hookup with someone? a party or something like that, without having to have a boyfriend?
and truthfully, im nervous, and i am almost positive i will freak out right before i give/recieve oral.
and so how can i overcome the nerves?
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well at first I was like oh this poor girl wants to fix her reputation.. but then I realized that the question was where can I find boys to hook-up-more-then-make-out with. I'm sorry but that's just really sad. I only clicked this because I too am a HUGE flirt and have had rumors about me that I have had sex when I hadn't, and I wanted to help you. But come on no way are you gonna fix your reputation if you want to hook up with people.


BTW the answer is at parties and clubs and whereever the "get high" spot is. You can overcome the nerves is by being iwth someone that you trust and know won't judge you. If you don't want to be with someone like that then there is no way you just gotta go for it. and yes it is normal to hook up without boyfriends, but it's very frowned upon.


I am starting high school and i am really nervous! Does anyone have any tips or things they want to share? It can be about friends, boys, hair, clothes, grades, teachers, anything! I need lots of advice because I am very worried! Thanks! (link)
teachers: they don't take your shit haha so just sit there quietly and do your work
boys: immature and will probably stick to their group, but that will change throughout high schoool.
friends: change. Old bffs can change a LOT! Try to have a close circle of friends that will care for you and about you cause if you pick "popular" ones, they aren't really your friends. that's cliche but it's also the truth. I can tell you that from expierence.
hair: uhm..nothing really your hair is your hair?
Grades: might go down. be careful haha
CAFETERIA: BE CAREFUL. do not throw food like behind you or something because you WILL end up hitting someone and they WILL end up stuffing pizza in your face. Not exgarrating. If older kids cut you in line, LET THEM CUT. you will get to do it when you're older so just let it go

even though that sounds kind of scary, the most of high school is so much fun..I had a lot of fun in my classes with my friends it's great you will love it :)


How do u know if u like a boy more than good friends? I don't think I like my best guy friend more than good friends but he likes me. So how can i tell? (link)
your heart beats harder when he comes in the door.
everything you do in his presence is to impress him, or make him notice you.
you think about him a lot a lot.
you mess up your words a lot when your with him. (like nervousness)

anyways.. if none of that is describing what your feeling then what the hey if he's cute just go for it.


how can i avoid making out with my bf. I mean he wants to make out all of the time. And i dont want to make it obvious that i dont want to. We are going to watch a movie together on wednesday .

If you have ideas please let me know. (link)
tell him you don't want to make out with him, in a nice way that doesn't hurt his feelings

or lie and say you think you're getting a cold

but if you're gonna pick one, pick the truth please :)


I want to get rid of my lip hair. It's brown like my hair color and almost noticable. I am not interested in waxing it or shaving it, because i's gross when it grows back. (btw- i'm 13/f) My friend told me that she bleaches her lip hairs (her mom does it for her). She's the same age as me, but I was wondering if it was safe? And where can I get this 'bleach'? Are there any side effects? Is it expensive? Just let me know what you know about it. Thanks! (link)
if you wax it it really does NOT grow back all gross.. I don't know where you heard that from. but never ever ever shave anything on your face cause then it will be gross. Anyways, you should really get it waxed it's the best way to get rid of it and the moreyou get it done the less it will grow (time given of course.) This 'bleach' you can purchase at a local drugstore. Sally Hansen is what I use. You mix this powder with this liquid stuff and you put it on for 8 minutes. It really is safe idk why you think it's so dangerous. What I do is get it waxed like twice a month, and once you can start seeing it grow back I Use the bleach. The first time you use bleach you should have your mom with you. I did, but now I can do it all in like 10 seconds it's really easy. (Not including the 8 minutes when it's on.) but you should consider waxing because even though you bleach it, it's still there and people can still see it.


Does anybody know Blake and Dylan Tuomy-Wilhoit's real myspace?

(Their the two who played Nicky and Alex on full house)

Thanks! (link)
they could actually not have one


15/f

so about 2 weeks ago I saw a dog walking down the street at about 2:30 in the morning. I went over to see her, and realized that she was REALLY REALLY skinny. So me my mom and dad gave her a bunch of food and water, she ate and drank it all. The next day the Animal Protective league Came to get her to give her any medication ect. she needed to get her better. They said she was 2years old and had been on the streets for a while. They also said she was an abused dog. They could tell by the way she was acting around people. But she is a VERY sweet dog. They told us she was a mix between a Coon dog and a Basset hound.


They said that we could be her ( my dad named her sara) foster family, meaning we can have her at our house to take care of her until they find a pernament home for her (i hope we adopt her), so we are her foster family now.

At first Sara went to the door when she had go to the bathroom. But yesterday she went pea on my carpet in my room,I knew it was her because I caught her doing it, then she bolted out of the room. I thought, "well maybe one of the other dogs that we have went the a long time ago and we didn't clean it up well enough". I said "NOOOO" really sternly to her a couple of times and showed her it by putting her nose close to it so she would know what she did. So, after I showed her it, I held her face up to mine and said, "NOO" sternly to her, I could see the fear in her eyes. I did NOT hit her. I thought she was potty trained .... the first 5 days went so well she was getting along with the other dogs and was starting to come out of her shell, she was playing and was always happy to see us.


So today it was raining in the morning and Sara REFUSED to get wet, so we had to wait till later to take her out. My dad did when it stopped raining but Sara still didn't go. He told me to take her out later. So I cooked some speghetti and ate. When I came down for about the 10th time between eating and cooking to check on her I smelled something, and it smelled like poop. I went in my room and there it was. I got Sara and did the same thing to her that i did when she went pea in my room. I cleaned it up and took her outside. She went pea. Then she decieded to go upsairs for the first time. Which if OK. Well I had just got done taking her out and she pead on the carpet upstairs!!!! I did the same thing agian, like I had done when she went in my room.

I did NOT tell my mom she has done all this either.

So is Sara going to hate me now, because she was abused, but I had to teach her that she can't go in the house. Otherwise my mom will send her back to the Animal Protection League. And I REALLY love her. (I'm an animal lover). Is Sara not going to be excited to see me anymore? Is she going to be afaid of me? I didn't hit her, so will she be ok? I want her to love me!?!



Please help...thank you SOOO much!!!








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awwww don't worry we know you love her!

a good way to show a dog not to do something is to flick them on the nose. It doesn't really hurt them, but it shows them that they've done something wrong.

you should tell your mom that you love the dog verrryy much and then tell her that she pees a lot. I'm sure you guys could train her to not go on the carpet instead of giving her back to the shelter.

I rescued a puppy myself! When we got her, her front tooth was missing because her previous owner hit her in the jaw and it came out. and at first she was REALLY scared and she would shake whenever anyone came near her and she would pee a LOT on the carpet (that's why I think she pees a lot, because she is scared.) but I mean it's been 4 years and now she is the SWEETEST (but stupidest) dog ever, she's still scared sometimes but not around her family members. she'll cuddle with you and everything!!!

anyways, what I'm trying to say is that if you tell your mom that you would never ever went to send this poor puppy back to a shelter because it already found a great home, but if we couldd just find a way to train it that would be great! If your mom has a heart, she'll let you keep it haha.

don't worry! everything will work out in the end


Don't think i am talk9ing about stamina, because i have decent stamina but i have been told before that i have a wild, uncontrolled style of breathing when i run, i feel this is shaving off my full potential so what arethe proper ways and how can i improve (link)
breath through your ribs. hold your hands together in front of you (not the interlocking fingers way)and press them against each other, and you should breathe your ribs. but you don't always have to do this while you breathe though, just so you can get use to it.


I am looking for makeup and hair tips and this is what i look like:::

http://i192.photobucket.com/albums/z137/pinkerss/apdiv.jpg

and alsoo

http://i192.photobucket.com/albums/z137/pinkerss/haahaaa.jpg



any colors of eyeshadow? mascara? eyeliner??

in the pics i was wearing black eyeliner and mascara and green eyeshadow, blush, foundation. (link)
no no the person below me is totally wrong. black eyeliner does not bring out green eyes it hides them trust me. Use like a brownish-purpleish eyeliner. I love the red hair! let's see for hair tips I think you could definitely pull off the high ponytail with the poof (Since you have bangs.) You know what I'm talking about? And don't be afraid to wear head bands because sometimes they are good if you don't feel like doing your bangs, and they are a great accessorie. But not hard head bands cause they hurt behind your ears. for make up maybe a little bronzer (Not saying that your skin is too white, it's very pretty.) At make-up stores they have certain eye kits for people with different eye colors (They're small there's maybe like 4 colors in each kit.) but they show you how to put it on and stuff.



Yeah so I'm like the only one in my grade who thinks Corbin Bleu is hott and stuff. I'm in 8th grade. Everyone thinks he's a fag, and yeah I'll admit he does kinda act gay but I'm still in love with him. Do you guys think he's hott/gay? I wanna see if I'm like the only one my age who's obsessed with him! Haha. (link)
i think everyone in the 8th grade no matter where is obsessed with a high school musical character so I'm sure there's someone out there


I love my friend but she's moody. I recently went with her on a 4day trip and we had the best time; laughed a lot, picked up men, acted crazy, but the last day in the car she hit my thigh I kinda laughed it 0ff. She kept d0ing it & I looked at her & said a littly jokingly "why are you hitting me?" she said "because I can. Wat are y0u g0in t0 d0 ab0ut it?" I laughed it 0ff. She did it AGAIN & I was PISSED I was ready t0 cuss her out, but I have enough respect 4 her parents in the car to not in front of them. Then when we g0t in the restraunt she tried getting too close 4 comfort & tried to push me off the bench! We are 16 year old people? I was supposed to spend the night but I didn't because I knew she was going to get worse! Wat do I do with her? She all of a sudden gets like that? That's a reason why I can't call her my bestfriend or sister! She used to do it at school in front of our group to me & say things. (That's why I was happy when she moved!) we're perfect and then wow. She has this 'I'm serious but I'm going to pretend I'm joking' attitude! 0h & I d0nt do a THING to her!!
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there is an "o" button for a reason?


15/f

i date alot of boys. i mean not alot, alot. like some girls have boyfriends every week, but thats like ridicooulous. i mean, but ill usually have one like every 2 or 3 months like. ill date them for 1 or 2 months. and then just kinda play the field, and then get an actual boyfriend like a month later. basically though, i dont usually have trouble of letting guys go. anyways, i dated this one boy in like 7th grade. [ill be going into 9th this september.] anyways, and i dumped him, and anyways, whenever we talk. im like constantly smiling. like my mom will walk by, and be like, "who are you talking to, thats making you smile so much?" i mean i dont know. do you think i just enjoy talking to him, or do you think i actually like him, and dont even realize it? (link)
maybe like i don't know you should like date him for like a month and then like see what happens since you already like date like a lot of boys like.


haha cool. what kind of literature are you singing? (link)
Well right now I'm doing this very hard french song.. I've only been doing this for like 2 years.


Hey, yes it was pretty difficult to get in to. I had to send in a tape with an application, pass that, take a musicality test and pass it, and go for a live audition. but i love it. do you sing classical too? (link)
To the best of my ability haha


Hey, I go to a Fine Arta school. I'm very serious about my singing and training and my dreams of singing opera. Anyone else? (link)
dude. I know. Everyone is like why do you train classically? It's so boring. But it's so beautiful listening to opera singers. Much better then those nasally-poppy singers. I say you go for your dreams don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It's great that you go to a fine arts school right on.was it hard to get into?


what do you think i should do in my 16th birthday? the cheap one and ill be inviting 10 or so what do you think i should do?
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LASERtAG!




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