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Last Update: November 2, 2016
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Hi i am 17 years and well my ex is 25 . We have now each other for almost 4 years. During that time we had broke up many times so we decided to just be friends but i think we still have feeling for each other. We never had sex but we exchanged pics etc. Lately he stopp3d talking to me because of an argument we had ...i tried talking to him but he seemed uninterested so i juat gave up. Then one night he msged me late and said that my profile pics were turning him on and we should have a little fun . I was really pissed as i felt used so i juat said that i am tired and gonna sleep. He was begging and stuff but i just went and slèep. The pojnt is although i feel like thia i believe that he i ahould be with him because he will change. For the 4 years he has and i just hope he can .i cant stip talking to him ... i honestly cant and he knows it because he told me to and well i began crying and stuff and begged him . I dont know what to do ...i cried an entire day and was realky angry ...i know eventually everything will be ok but it will take too long and i am afraid i wont move on because i tried and well i broke up with the guy because he deserved better .. everytime i told him something nice i just know i meant to tell my ex bot him ... also i believe since mg ex is a virgin tht is the reason he is like this but i wont have sex til i am married (link)
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Hey there. Okay so first off your ex seems as if he is only interested in having sex with you now because if e wasn't he wouldn't ask you to "have a little fun" after you guys haven't talked in so long. I understand your situation... actually I was in your situation once before. Don't fall for it! I'll tell you why. Because once he sees you are not all into sex but you're into him, he will manipulate you into doing sexual things such as: exchanging more pictures, talking dirty to one another, and possibly having sex with him. He probably will be the type to hit you with the "we've been dealing with each other for 4 years and I think we should take it to the next level. You know me well enough, I think we should have sex." It really is hard to get over someone you really love. Sometimes you will overthink and start to fell that they could change but truth is if its been this long and you haven't seen a change in him for the better, then maybe he'll never change for you. I think you should leave him alone and move on. I know its hard to move on and you don't necessarily have to jump into something with someone else, but you could take some time and better yourself and give your heart time to heal before dealing with another guy.
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