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Dating older men was not zomethibg i planned on in life, however once i started dating i seemed to only find older men attractive.
My boyfriend Jorge and i have been dating since October 2010. We met exercising around our neigborhood. He waz a recent dicorced father of a 2 (now 3) year old. I was a university student who just moved to Florida.
When i moved to Miami we still saw each other 4x a month. Recently he asked me to move back to central Florida to advance our relationship. After much debate, i decided to leave Miami. Now ive been back for 4-5 months and if anything i see him less or the same as i did when i lived ib Miami. Thjngs have not even attempted to advance. I questioned him about it and he acted like i was speaking another language! I told him i am fed up and we need to go our separate ways, but thats not what i really want.
My question is this:
Why do you think he did not want to advance the relationship?
Do you think he just wanted me closer and more convienent for gim (possibly even control)?
Do you think my responce to this event was appropriate?
If we speak again what should i say to get my point across?
* he is also a cardiologist with his own pratice, ill be il school for 2 more years. Our families know about each other, i have met his son, etc.
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Sounds to me that once he got you were he wants you.he doesnt have to try as hard.I think you should tell him exactly
what you excepted was going happen when you moved and that he needs to figure out what he wants and soon or you have no choice but to end it and move on.Even though you dont want it to be over If your in a relationship where your not happy its never going work.Your just going be miserible. Its sounds to me that he just wanted to closer to keep eye on you and have you there for when he wants you.I think your response was appropriate.I hope it works out for you and i hope i helped
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