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Member Since: April 17, 2012
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Last Update: April 17, 2012
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Hi everyone!
I have a couple of questions.
I have regular periods; never miss one. Well I start on the 14th of EVERY month. For some reason I didn't get a period at all in March, and I have started yet this April either. Yes, me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex, but the last time we had sex, I got my period two weeks later; and took pregnancy tests and everything-NEGATIVE.

So why is my period late? March I started working out at the YMCA, 4 days a week; and I've been stressed, but not to the max with school, work & family issues.



ONE MORE QUESTION:
Fiance' and I went on vacation to Gatlinburg; we had sex in the hottub, and he pulled out and nut got in the hot tub; I was sitting there naked, of course, and the cum was coming towards me; could I get pregnant that way, or does the steam and chemical kill it? I mean it didn't get inside me, I don't think; so I'm curious.


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Well the only way you get pregnent is if the cum gets inside you, but you might be pregnent if you had unprotected sex and you might have a baby with out even showing it or you might not know it yet, if you waited for two weeks and it said no then you wont have one, but if it said yes after two weeks and you will have one if it dont die inside of you. Hope this helps you with your questions. :)


sometimes i love the way i look and sometimes i feel disgusting. whats wrong with me? (link)
You have nothing wrong with you, its just what people do, I think that here and then, but thats what happens if your a girl, if a boy they dont care what they look like they care about video games and food,,,, Hope this helps :)


I am A 13year old female. And i would like to know if anyone knows the easiest way to die?. I've just really had enough of my life to be honest. There is no point in me being alive. I am NOTHING. I have my GCSE'S coming up this summer and next year, I've been put under so much pressure I cant handle it. Im not ready to face failure. And On top of that I am in a relationship with this really nice boy. we recently started dating and its going quite well, however i still love my ex. me and my ex had a quite sexual relationship and its hard to accept the fact that we cant be together anymore. i cant break up with my current boyfriend, i'll feel like a bad person. AND BASICALLY IVE JUST HAD ENOUGH OF LIFE. SERIOUSLY DONT WANT TO BE HERE. AND I FIND IT TO BE DEATH IS THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL OF MY PROBLEMS. AND I GOT MANY THIS IS JUST ONE/TWO (link)
Don't kill yourself if you really want your ex back then brake up with your current bf. Please don't kill yourself its not the only thing to finish your problomes but, you just need a little help here and there, but i know how you feel, i wanted to kill myself but would that be really worth losing all my friends and family, I said no it would not be worth killing myself. Hope this helps. Good luck. :)


21/F: So me and my “boyfriend” have had a lot of ups and downs. We’ve been off and on for about 3 years. He has a drug problem and since the beginning of the year has actually been in recovery. While he was in rehab, he called me almost every night and we had hour long conversations of just happiness. He shared like every detail of his life with me and I felt so important because he trusted me enough to really tell me how he felt. But one day he told me that he couldn’t carry on a relationship with me or call me so often because he needed to work on himself but really wanted a relationship later on. Well, here we are a couple months later and I am going insane. It’s not that I don’t think he needs time or whatever. But I am beginning to doubt how he feels about me at all…He doesn’t EVER call me. Sometimes doesn’t even respond to my texts. He is supposed to come up this coming weekend and I am super nervous. I am excited because I really do love this guy with all of my heart but I’m scared he’s going to hurt me again. He said he can’t be rushed into a relationship and he would come up here and take me out when he was ready. So now I know that’s probably his plan. But I feel as if maybe he will never be able to give me what I want from a relationship. We are long distance and I want someone that I can talk to whenever I want to. I’m not talking like all hours of the day. But if I want to talk to him, I don’t want to be ignored. I feel like no matter how I tell him that I want a healthy happy relationship with him or how I wish he would talk to me more, nothing ever happens. This is new ground though because he is in recovery. I don’t know what’s going on in his life at all, he has all these new friends which seem like a great support system. But I wish I was more included :/ I really love this kid and if he does end up coming up here, do you guys have any advice on what I should say? I hate being this sad :/ I just honestly want a happy relationship soooo badly :[ (link)
Just ask him how he's doing and if good than ask if you are still dating and if not then move on or make him want you!!! Hope this will help and your welcome for answering this!!! :)


Me: 16/Female, Junior. Him: 18/Male,Senior. So this guy, we’ve been best friends for three years. Literally. Best friends. I could go on for pages and pages and pages and pages about our friendship, how much it means to me, how much its helped me through so many tough times, how he’s basically my rock yadayadayada. I can’t go on about it, but you got to get it in your head that this kid means SO MUCH to me.
And that’s also kind of the problem. He means so much to me. He means so much to me, and as of recently, we started hooking up. I know, BAD IDEA. Please don’t lecture me. We hook up, friends with benefits kinda thing, and we try not to let anyone know about it.
That’s not really the main problem though. The combination of him meaning so much to me, and me hooking up with him has obviously gotten me thinking some “more than friends” kinda thoughts. Which he has made it very clear on very many occasions, will never happen. I’m a junior, he’s a senior, he’s going to college, it’s just not going to happen. We will never date. It hurts me though. I literally think I’m in love with him. And it sucks. And I can’t tell him about it.
Another side of our relationship: the side where I’m a push over and he loves it. He’s a 6’2 jacked up football player. I’m 5’3 100 pounds, and yes, I’ll admit it, weaker than shit. Already physically he pushes me around a lot. He’s a very impatient, pushy guy. Nothing bad, he’s never hurt me or anything, he just knows that if he wants something his way, he’ll have it his way and I can’t stop him. I don’t know how to explain it. We’re good enough friends that if were sitting in his car eating some chips and I wanna turn the volume on the radio down, I’m gonna reach over and turn down the volume. And he’s gonna grab my wrist and turn it back. Ill reach with my other hand and he’ll just hold both my wrists in one hand and not let go until I say “fine, you win, volume stays where it is”. What else can I do? I let him push me around in other ways too. I hate it, but yeah sometimes I feel like his bitch. That’s just my personality, I do what I’m told, I don’t like causing a lot of issues. But he takes advantage of this and I know it.
I just don’t know what to do. He really is a good friend to me. I’m not saying anything about all the good parts… Like how he constantly sticks up for me, uses his size to protect me (or beat my ex boyfriends ass when he slapped me), or holds me when I cry and buys me ice cream when I’m sad. I’m so confused about everything… How he treats me, how I feel about him… And I just don’t know what to do from here but I’m not happy. Please help.
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Okay, you just got to go up to him and tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about you, if he likes you wait a few days and then ask him to be your boyfriend, but you might want to wait three or four days before you ask him out. Thanks for putting the question and your welcome for answering it, and good luck with your dream boy!!!! :)




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