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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
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I will answer you in a way that no one else has, yet.
There are ways to kill yourself, and yes, they will all be painful. If you live in the United States, which I am pretty sure you do, then people like Dr. Kevorkian cannot help you with euthanasia.
I do not agree that people who are suffering should have to "fight it out". I think that is just a slave driven nation going insane. Why the hell should any of us have to suffer? And I most certainly do not believe in Hell.
However, I will stress do you this: Death is not the end. Not because of some religious doctrine. Not because it might not be more peaceful there. Nope, pure science and paranormal phenomenon proves time and time again that death is not the end of your consciousness, which means that whatever pain you are having may not actually be alleviated by it. Here is a link to an article about what happens when you die:
http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1842627,00.html
I actually found this question in a Google search because I, myself, was contemplating suicide. I have suffered from suicidal thoughts for 15 years now. I do not know what keeps me going, but there is something here.
Judging by the answers on this message board, most people are aware of this "something" that does keep us going.
Again, I do not think that you should have to suffer or fight it out or take the pain... I think that's ludicrous. Whatever pain you have is legitimate, no matter how insignificant it may seem to others, and no matter how many people have suffered the same pains. Every pain should be changed and made into pleasure. Your problem is... you do not know how to make a pleasure out of your pain, yet.
The longer you continue, the closer you will be to, and finally fixing, all of your problems. You will find the answers you seek. You will find hope and happiness again. Life is cyclical. You will also feel pain again, but most likely, it will be something you can deal with.
Suicide is not something that people "do", it is something that happens TO them. Much like being devoured by a pack of wild wolves, life throws these consciousness bending challenges at us that sometimes actually do kill us. No one actually "wants" to die, including you, and me. We don't want to die. We, actually, just don't like the pain that is in life that should not be there.
You and I are frustrated and extremely excited and angry. It is a deadly combination of feelings. We feel like we should continue, which is why we even went online in the first place, and yet we also feel like we should stop, because we know that damn pain NEEDS TO END, but we cannot seem to figure out how those two different beliefs can live together harmoniously.
Why are countries even at war? Why are there plagues? Why are iPods in existence when people in this very United States of America are STARVING?!
Rationality doesn't concern itself with our plight. You and I will find our way, and if we die in the process whether it's from suicide, a car accident, cancer, or even murder... our lives held significance and continue to do so after we die.
I believe in you, no matter what you "choose" to do. I believe that your life has meaning. I also believe that you, being here, in this message board, with all of these people coming together to discuss this very difficult and real part of life, are on the right path to feeling better.
The people who say something, anything, to try to understand this are usually the ones who end up leading the happiest lives they never even could have imagined.
I believe you will have a good life and so will I.
Why do I believe? Because "something" is telling me that is the case, just as "something" told me that I wanted to die in the first place. There are powers greater than us at work here, and if you are not dead already, then you are heading for an even better existence than your earlier life.
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