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Hi, my legs and thighs are very muscular from playing tennis. Is there any way I can slim them down and make them thin instead of so muscular?
Thanks so much
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gvfhds i have just about the same problem. when i used to do gymnastics often, my thighs and legs became more muscular as opposed to long and lean which is what i wanted. i've heard from some friends (who do this) that pilates or yoga really help to tone muscular legs making muscles longer and leaner rather than short and bulky if you know what i mean. so maybe you could find a friend and find a local gym that offers a class, or if you don't want a class..a video might be as effective too..but good luck with that!
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So this popular guy liked me in middle school and I hated him back then because he was a bully. Fast forward to four years later, I've had a crush on him for three years. We kept staring at each other all the time for the past while. I just started talking to him and smiling at him last week. When the week ended he got into his car and drove away. I got the worst feeling in my stomach and was depressed for three days and I didn't know why. New semester started yesterday and apparently, he finished all his courses and had graduated. I am never going to see him again.
I've thrown up three times and been crying non stop for the past 5 hours. I really really liked him. What am I supposed to do? I feel like I'm going to go off myself and it's so pathetic because we've barely talked but you have no idea how much I like this day. What am I supposed to do now? I feel like my world has come crashing down on me. (link)
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Well, OCD is a compulsive disorder..meaning you have a habit of doing something more than usual so could that be triggering your depression? maybe... because you were used to be able to see him, even though not knowing him so well, but just having him there was like a comfort. However, now that he's gone..it's like disrupted that pattern probably causing you to feel like something's missing and ultimately going into the depression you are in now. TRUST ME, you WILL make it through this! You're young, strong, and have so much to look forward to. If you're really adamant on this boy, is there anyway you can reach him? Ask around about him..like where he could be now and stuff. Maybe, if you're too afraid to call him or see him in person, you could write him telling him everything you've felt for him and how much you always wanted to tell him. I know similar feelings of liking someone but regretting that I had never told them..because i don't know what "could have been." You're not a pathetic person at all; situations like these just suck. If you have someone you can talk to about all this, please do. I find talking to my friends helps me SO much. As for stress, just r e l a x, stay with people who make you happy, eat food that's GOOD for you..no caffeine and over sugared and starched things..just breathe and if you need anything else, someone will always be there. Ok?
I hope this helps.
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