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Im emo and 13 and my muzic tastes are changing. Any reccomendations? (link)
try tastekid.com

you discover new music


Does anyone know where I can download music for free? Not frostwire or limewire.. (link)
try this

http://www.youtube-mp3.org

copy and paste a song url from youtube and press convert and it will turn into a mp3 file


I was saving myself untill marriage to have sex which I thought just meant penetration of penis in vagina. I didn't really know about anything else cause I wanted it to be a surprise for me.
Please dont laugh at my agge. I'm in my early 20s. I've only had one boyfriend but he never did anything to me apart from kissing & outside foreplay, which I was fine with.
I was at a temporary job, my supervisor who is 45 liked me & I started to like him back. My parents were against it from the start. So I stayed with my friend for a while & met up with him sometimes. I stayed at his house one night & he knew I wanted to be a virgin untill marriage. But he asked to finger me. I didn't really know what it was so I asked him will I still be a virgin & he said yes. I said ok & let him, then I started bleeding & he said its ok, its only foreplay.
My friend asked my how it went & I told her what happened and she said I'm not a virgin anymore because of the fingering. We didn't have actual sex.
The guy said when he was at school fingering was foreplay & he didn't know.
Then a few months later anotherr guy did it me but this time I quickly pulled his finger out.
Now I feel sick & disgusting cause I embarrased my family. I cant even look at them without feeling disgusted in what I did.
The bleeding doesn't help. I got over the first guy & thought I could carry on into another relationship but this guy tried/did the same thing.
I don't think I am a virgin anymore cause of this & now I feel hurt & used. I feel sick all the time cause I know this will be with me forever.
I disappointed my dead grandparents on both sides & all of my family. I just dont know what to do because I can't change this. Sometimes I feel normal & sometimes I don't.
I think fingering is losing virginity. So girls, please take my advice & NEVER let a guy finger you. Now I feel like I'm going to be a slut on my wedding night. I've always been a good person & I just dom't understand why this happened. I was weak in saying no. How do I get the courage to say no next time?
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first off when you get fingered your not suppost to start bleeding wtf?

your still when beacuse thats not real sex

did you even want this to happen?






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