Member Since: September 25, 2005
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Last Update: September 25, 2005
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I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for over a year. Its a pretty special relationship to me. But, theres always these never ending problems that I can't fix anymore. There are times when he'll know that I need him, and he'll leave, not like I'll be crying and say, "I need you" I mean like, we'll have plans to meet online or something, and he'll go to his friends house. I'm usually always ok with him leaving to go to a friends house. But, we hardly got to talk last weekend and now this weekend we never talked, and now next weekend he'll be gone and he knew that he would be. We always have problems where he'll be gone, or just a silly issue will happen. I'd hate to sound like one of those desperate girls, but hes different. He isn't the type to just leave me like that, he feels really bad when he forgets something or did something wrong, yet it keeps happening, and I'm the only one to always think of a solution to fix us, well, this time I decided to make him think, and hes saying we should break up for now. We have recently taken a lot of breaks to help us, we started with taking the whole weekend away, and then we moved on to a week and a half, and here we are stuck again. I have never been so terrified in my life about this relationship failing. I guess I need to know if breaking up for now was the right thing, or if we should be doing something we havn't already done. I think there is something inside of him wanting to work this out, but something else forgets. I'm really open to any answers, I just need help, I'm really depressed. What would be the best solution to you?
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Dear Torn,
What you have to do is give him a second chance becuase he may have a lot going on in his life. So you need to be there so support him with all that is going on. Take my advice and give him another chance set up a special date or something go hang out at the movies or at the mall. But make sure that it is just you and him and ask him why he hasn't been talking to you that much. Make sure you give him a reason to why you want to know whats been going on. Tell him you are concerned and want your relationship to last.
Sencerely,
Volleyball
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