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i want to lose 10 lbs in 3 months cuz on my bday i am geting money adn i want to buy clothes but i want to look cute in them i am 118 and i waer size 5 but i am not satisified.oh i am short i am like 5'3 ish.. My question for you is this: A) is that unrealistic? B) anyideas on how i could do that?
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(( A + B )) its def. possible if u put alot of effort into it and work out alot nd' make the right choicez in foods!
xOx- Tiffany *
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Ok, ok. I admit it. I'm not eating enough. But no one will leave me alone about it! I have this one teacher who's about to call my mom. I seriously don't want to eat more, but if everyone (like my mom) gets on my case about it, I will have no choice! I'm doing well losing weight! I have never looked better! And if everyone gets involved I'm gonna gain it back. Everyone always asks "What did you eat today" And when I say "nothing" they get all mad. How do I get them to leave me alone? (Please don't be like everyone else and tell me it's not good for me) I just want to know how to get them off my back. I would lie but I'm a bad liar. Thanks. (link)
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okay im not here to tell u that its "bad"... it would only be not good for u if u got like tooo skinny to the point where u were like skin and bonez... but i totally agree with u that itz your choice and that YOU wanna loose wieght not them! ... and about getttin them off your back.. tell them that its your body and that you feel healthy and that you dooing fine and tehre is nothing to worry about! ... and that if there was a problem then u would come to them.
if u need ne more help just IM me!
x Oh ToO cUtE 4u
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I’m female, 15, and I hate everything about my family, I’ve always been rejected and pushed aside and neglected, my brother is the center of everyone’s life because he is such an asshole, my parents give him whatever he wants because they can’t stand to hear him rage and scream and say everything bad and hateful he could possibly say. I think they give him such free rein because he has turrets or however the hell you spell it and they just blame his bad behavior on it. They have always been too focused on trying to help my lying, trouble making, hates-the-world, asshole of a brother, so I can never feel anything- they can’t deal with me being sick, or sad, or angry, because they can’t help me, they’ve stopped trying because as soon as their attention would switch over my brother would do something and start screaming and saying shit about me, and how much he hated me and my parents and that everyone else does everything wrong, not him. My parents won’t get him help, they now take their anger at him out on me, they yell and scream at me when I tell them what I think of my brother and how I think they’re doing stuff wrong with him and how he needs help, my dad always punishes him at the wrong time when he’s actually calm, he can never say anything right to my brother, and then they ask me to go give him food or ask him stuff and my brother takes shit out on me. I hate everything about my family, I’m tired of being pushed around and neglected, and they’re making me into a person I hate, what can I do that doesn’t involve anything that costs money? because I’m not that rich. Plz help me, I’m honestly ready to kill myself.
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first thing i can say is def. dont kill yourself...explain to your mom and dad how u feel and tell them that you are always feeling negelted and pushed to the side, even if it means arguing even more... u have to do that if thats what it takes to get your thougths threw there head. And hopefully after a couple days after your explain to them.. they will relize that your right and that maybe they are payin alot more attension to your brother and then they will mayb change how they act towardz you!
if uve already tried this... maybe try thinking about going to councling or something so you have an adult to help you try and solve your family problems!
i hope i helped..IM me on __x Oh ToO cUtE 4u__
nd' lettme know how things are goin ;)
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okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried
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i totally understand where ur coming from... but u def. need to talk to him and tell him that he rele needZ to make up his mind about if he likes you or not so u can decide your love life in the future... and if he tells you that he likes you, then try telling him how you feel about this nd' how u wanna have a relationship.. nd' then hopefully everything will fall into place! but if he says that he doesnt like you like he did b4 .. but he is still getting jelous of u hanging out with your other guy friends... then tell him to lay off nd' that he rele needs to think twice about what he told u b4 (( about not liking you ))... nd' if that doesnt work then tell him that you guys are still best friends no matter who u hang out with and nothing is ever going to change that so he doesnt have to worry if he doesnt have feelings for u like he said*
i hope i helped... nd' if u still need to ask ne thing orr get any more help.. im here for you... * just IM me on __ x Oh tOo cUtE 4u__
xOx-Tiffany*
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