Well I'm Talia and I think think i'm really open minded about things and that I can give great advice.Just a little about me..I love the arts.I have taken dance lessons for 9 years, i'm in my school's chorus and have gone to disricts, and i also act in my school plays.Above all I love singing, music is my everything.
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Member Since: June 25, 2010
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Last Update: June 25, 2010
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Hey :) well I'm 13 and I need help me and my bf have been going out for 8 months were still virgins but we had conversations about havinq sex together should I ? I realy think he is the one ... Oh and sory another question I have gotten fingerd befor but I'm not sure if I still am a virgin am I?? I did not feel much niether did I bleed. My bestfriend told me that mabey it ddnt go all the way in to make my chery pop is sh right?? I need help I need answers please help :)
With love, gata :) (link)
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Hey..well i'm gonna say this and it's probably the one thing you hate to hear the most but you are definatly too young to have sex.That being said I even think i'm too young to have sex and i'm a couple years older than you haha if that makes you feel better.Right now 8 months feels like a long time to be dating someone...but in reality you are going to date so many more guys and experience so many more feelings that I honestly think you should rethink saying that he is the one.I think that if you have sex with this guy that things may stay good for a while..and you may date for a couple more months but honestly you're only 13 i don't think you're gonna date up until you graduate and everything thats a really long time.Then you have to worry about all the rumors that might spread about you and being called a slut..you have to worry that guys are just gonna want to date you for sex..you have to worry that your parents might find out..or that you might get pregnant.There is a lot to consider.To answer your second question yes you're still a virgin..you're a virgin until someone's penis enters into you.It's not based on your cherry popping its based on what enters you.
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Ok, I've met this guy online and he's really good looking and he tells me i'm sexy and really cute. He talks about how he wishes we lived closer. We also talk about how we (along with alot of friends) should all go out camping sometime but then he said that we should get our own tent and I know that he just wants a hook up there but how do I tell him that I don't just want to hook up and I would like a relationship? When he says stuff like that, I just agree because I don't want him to lose interest.
Thank you!!! (p.s. I'm 20 and he's 19 and I'm still a virgin but he doesn't know :-/ ) (link)
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First off I think you need to stop just agreeing with him.When he says stuff like that(like sexually or whatever) and you agree that just makes him think that you're totally okay with him saying that stuff and that when you two meet that you're just going to have sex right away without hesitation.I would just be careful because since you met this guy online you don't really know him enough personally.Fact is he probably goes and says that you're sexy and cute and everything just to butter you up(because yes it does make you feel special and yes it does make you want to please him) and get you to agree with his sexual hints.So my advice to you would be to stop agreeing with him when he hints at that stuff..hint that you would like to share a tent with everyone else.If he starts to lose intrest in you just because you're not looking to have sex then he is not worth your time...you should get to meet and know eachother first before sex is even thought of.Just be careful with this guy..I have a feeling he is more of a hookup guy than relationship guy.Another piece of advice would be to find guys personally rather than on the enternet.Guys can play you more online than in person
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So, for summer i need really cute hairstyles.
I have long flat straight hair.
what are some cute hairstyles that i can do?? (link)
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My favorite right now is taking a semi thick piece of hair from in front of both ears braiding them and clipping them together in the back and leaving the rest down(kinda like a bohemian look)...um since your hair is straight why not change it up and make it wavy.Put some gel in your hair(kind of a lot but not enough to look greasy) take a curling iron and wrap your hair very loosly around the barrel then when youre finished run your fingers through to give a beachy look..if you didnt wanna use a curling iron youcould braid your hair at night when it's wet and when you wake up take them out..side braids are cute too
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i'm getting my senior pictures soon and i have no idea what to wear. i like the old time feel. something like 1950's. but i want to keep it modern too. i've got a couple simple outfits. for example black long sleeve shirt with jeans and a yellow shirt with jeans. but i want something fun but not really crazy that when i look back on it i won't like it. i also have a floral dress that i would like to wear but i don't know if that's too flashy for senior pictures. any advice would be helpful. thanks! (link)
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I think since it's your senior pictures that you should get really creative with them. I like the simple look that you described..another idea I like is wearing a simple summer dress and standing in a field(kinda reminds me of Taylor Swift).. um since you like the 50's look you could do like the high wasted shorts and a cute shirt tucked in that way it wouldn't be too flashy and would be your style..I love the idea of wearing a pair of faded jeans a white t-shirt and sitting cross legged in front of a black background.Idk just throwing ideas out.What would be helpful is look at pictures of famous people and get ideas from that.Hope I helped a little :)
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