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where i get these pants?

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l7masktXjc1qc2fplo1_500.png

Here's a site with a black pair:

http://wardrobemag.wordpress.com/2010/03/02/down-the-rabbit-hole/

That's all i could find though :/
Maybe try forever 21 or a vintage boutique type place.

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i am in desperate need of loosing ten pounds.

my aunt put me on a 1200 calorie "lifesyle" plan (heats the word diet) and swears that ill loose weight.
however i have until october to do it and i dont think that by eating 1200 a day it cud happen.

what do you think- do you think i could loose ten pounds by october on a 1200 calorie diet?

if not how could i?
its really important

As long as you are working out daily and eating healthy foods for the 1200 calories, it is very possible! :)

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hi im kayla and i have a really important question!.. can a guy go to jail for being 20 yrs of age and dating a girl who is 14 turnin 15 right before he turns 21 can he go to jail an is that ok cuz to me it sounds fine as long as they dont do anithing are they wrong for this?? please answer as soon as possible .. thanx i would really appreciate it !!!!!!

If you guys are sexually active then yes he can go to jail because that's illegal. You're a minor still. That much of an age difference is not normal, and most likely sex is the reason a 20 year old man would be with a 14 year old girl. If this doesn't change your mind, then be very very careful and please don't get into a bad situation where he can take advantage of you.

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I got a keyboard for my graduation present from my aunt and uncle. They knew I would love this gift and I do. I am still not very good and I have taken time away from the keyboard.. I am now starting up again. (I know it takes practice)

However, I also eventually want to learn guitar or bass. If I ask for say a guitar for Christmas or my birthday would this be a slap in the face to my aunt and uncle?

I think if you take the time to explain to them that you are not giving up on the keyboard but are wanting to learn another instrument because you enjoy music and want to expand your talent, they will understand. Most adults are nice that way :)

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Hey ppl, do you have any advice on some Cheer leading Make-up and Hair styles? I just need some ideas. Thanks!

Ok obviously you have to wear your hair up in a ponytail and have it out of your face so here are a few ideas of how to make it a little cuter.

Add a braid. The options are really endless when it comes to braids but these are my favorites.

http://www.fanpop.com/spots/make-it-or-break-it/images/6796876/title/cassie-scerbo-lauren-tanner-photo

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_FfZMBBaCF8w/SKyQebzxBOI/AAAAAAAACB0/HkxbUMVn00k/s1600-h/lauren+pony+braid.bmp

Another option is a poof or a volumized pony.

http://cdn.sheknows.com/celebsalon/2008/07/jessica-simpson-05-espy-awards-ponytail-hairstyle.jpg

Add some curls!

http://www.hairstyles24.com/jessica-alba-ponytail-hairstyle/

As for makeup, glitter is your best friend. If you buy cheap loose eye glitter in your schools colors you can apply it with that white craft glue or even hairspray. They would have it at Claire's or a store like that.

Also, you can use eyeliner in different colors and draw words, player's numbers, shapes, etc etc on your cheeks or next to your eyes.

Just be creative and I'm sure you can think of plenty of more ideas but I hope this helped you get started! :)

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I'm attending a wedding in October, and I've never been to one, so I'm not quite sure what to wear.

I want a nice dress, so anyone with suggestions for where to shop or WEBSITES, that would be great :) thanks!

Make sure it's not too short, a little lower than mid thigh or longer is good! I'm not sure where you live so idk what the weather is going to be like, or even if it's an outside wedding but dress appropriately for it (ex. if it's cold wear a sweater, flats or boots, etc). If it's a summer-ish type wedding definitely wear a bright fun color.. just no white or black. Just pretend like your going to church or a family party when picking one out. Enjoy! :)

Website I think had the most potential is Delias!

http://store.delias.com/browse.do;jsessionid=DDC0905019D0CF74DC02B8EA101031D4.worker5?categoryKey=dresses&topnavTrack=dresses&incmpid=TopNavDre

But heres some others to look at too :)

http://www.charlotterusse.com/category/index.jsp?categoryId=4192312

http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=dress&Page=1


http://store.alloy.com/browse.do?categoryKey=dresses&shopnavTrack=dresses&incmpid=TopNavDresses


EDIT: You wear the same dress you wore to the wedding to the reception :) Have fun!

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would a tinted moisturizer make my face feel/look like i have makeup on? i want to be able to touch my face and it feel like nothing is on it.

Yes! Tinted moisturizer is exactly what it sounds like, just moisturizer! So once it's soaked in, it won't feel like you have anything on. Only slight downside is it doesn't give much coverage, so it's definitely for a natural look.

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Ok so I just got into a relationship with this guy. He is really sweet and cute. Last night we were chatting over facebook and he told me he wants to go to the movies and finger me when we are there. I am 13 and i wanna know if i should? and if i do what should i know.. when he does is my cherry gonna pop? And is it gonna hurt? I think he only likes me to have sex with me but I am only 13 im not ready to have sex.. Ok well Please Help Me!

If you're not ready then there is no rush whatsoever! Being intimate is something that's really private, and it's just not a good idea to be doing anything more then kissing in public.

Honestly, you're still so young and you said you guys just got into that relationship. Maybe you guys should take things slow and work your way up being fingered.

But for when you ready, no most likely your cherry isn't going to pop because fingers aren't as big or have as much pressure compared to having sex. As for hurting, it really depends on the person. The first time may hurt a little bit, but it will probably be uncomfortable more then anything. It will take you a couple times for you to get used to it, and for it to start feeling good.

Ok one last thing! If you really do think this boy is only with you for sex then dump him. You deserve respect and someone who wants to be with you wether your having sex or not.

Hope this helped! :)

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